me and this guy from the states started talking ,we would speak alot but then he came to see me in canada and he went hung out and ended up having sex and sleeping together and he cuddle me i didnt cuddle him and the next day when he left before he even walked out the door he came back to kiss me and i was suprised cause i didnt know it was like but i was starting like him but he left went back to army base and we spoke alot less and one day we were talking and he took a long time to answer and when he did answer i told him its to late i am already in bed and he texted me back and said i wasnt his girlfriend so he doesnt need to answer me back so then we stopped talking and one his friend msg me asking m if i remembered them and stuff and one night i got drunk and i msg him flirting and we started flirting back and forth but then one day the same guy i first guy i started talking msg me again and we started back talking but he so rude to me but for some reason i just keep talking to him and i dont know why and its really bothering me caus he calls me stupid and tells me i am needy and i just dont know what to do but i keep msg his friend flirting wit him and i want them both and i am scared that they are both going to find out about each other and ill lose them both or they will be petty and do me dirty , i dont know what to do !!!! i only want them as friends wit benefits cause there fun and funny to hang out wit but they both have my sexual level and its hard to find guys like that