Loneliness Support Group
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Hi to all of you.
I can't tell you how i am feeling but i just can't help it.
I feel insecure about everything.
I am 22 and never had a girlfriend.I used to love a girl but that was totally onesided.
I have done my engineering and am again insecure about my future.I am insecure whether anyone would love me for who i am.I am insecure and confused whether i am physically attractive or not.I am insecure whether i would meet good friends in my future.I am insecure about my life.
I get tensed at something that is completly rubbish and believe that it must be true.
I don't know how to control it.
Plz can anyone relate?
I can't tell you how i am feeling but i just can't help it.
I feel insecure about everything.
I am 22 and never had a girlfriend.I used to love a girl but that was totally onesided.
I have done my engineering and am again insecure about my future.I am insecure whether anyone would love me for who i am.I am insecure and confused whether i am physically attractive or not.I am insecure whether i would meet good friends in my future.I am insecure about my life.
I get tensed at something that is completly rubbish and believe that it must be true.
I don't know how to control it.
Plz can anyone relate?
I do kind of agree with the first poster, you must find it in yourself the love that you want to present to someone else, that can only come from within. Meaning, you have to have a certain love for yourself before you can truly love someone else the way you want to be loved.
Second- I think its natural to worry about your future, if you live here in the states- this is a normal thing- however it looks as if you've got your head on straight to keep going in school. Congrats on that.
3rd- In your spare time, and I know since you being in college, I would try to take some alone time, and recharge your batteries. Something like meditation, something that will destress you, let your mind relax. Youre constantly thinking, and that could be the problem. You have to let some of that stress go.
4th- I know this is the last thing you want to hear, you are so young, youre' only 22, you should be more focused on schooling to get that job, so that when you meet that girl, not only will you have love and respect for yourself, but you have will be able to love and respect the right girl who comes along.
Women love men with confidence, a great job (because this says security, and stableness). So when the time comes and you meet a girl, and really hit it off, youre set with a great job, a great place, and someone who may want to start a family.
You have to prepare for the future...you actually have the advantage right now...
Dont worry about other women at this point, you need to focus on you, and you alone right now...get your degrees, find yourself, find what makes you tick!
ok?
Thanks for the advice.
I have a job in my hand in one of MNC's but due to recession the joining has been postponed.Anyways i think you are right.I need to concentrate on my FUTURE.But you know sometimes this single thing can really stress me out but i think i'll try to figure it out.
TAKE CARE.