Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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Queen1996
Queen1996

When my boyfriend goes on vacation or isnt near me, I get upset. Not only becasue one of alternate personalities is out, but because my trauma includes abandonment and loniness. Any ideas on how to cope and not to explode on him for "leaving" me?

Scaredandafraid
Scaredandafraid
Why aren't you vacationing with him? Is it a long distance relationship? If it is you shouldn't be upset because that is what you take with a distance relationship but if you are there together and he goes alone then you can complain. If distance isn't ok with you then don't be in a distance relationship
SomethingAwesome
SomethingAwesome
I actually screen shot nice texts and look at them when I feel lonely or have doubts. They’re a nice reminder that he loves me and he’ll be back
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I don't know if you are spiritual or religious but knowing I am never alone has really helped me.

I also talk to myself alot and give myself support when I am alone. That also helps, plus I connect with friends online. I have met alot of people here through the years and I stay in touch with them either here or on facebook.

God Bless
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