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I feel like I have no one

Lukaz
Lukaz
I have a mother I can't talk to as she doesn't want to know about anything to do with me being gay. A father who doesn't know I'm gay and is one of the most homophobic people I know. A supportive brother that is away at university so I never see him to talk to and then friends who are ready to ask for help when they have a problem but as soon as I need any sort of help or support they become disinterested and try to change the topic so the don't have to hear about it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sorry for what you are going through right now we are all here for you if you need to talk stay strong. Hugs, Katie
gramybear
gramybear
I just don't understand people. I am not gay but I don't believe I have the right to pass judgement on anyone that has a different view on their beliefs or what they choose to do with their life. I don't know what you dad is so afraid of. Believe it or not a lot of times the people who are homophobic, are afraid they have feelings that they feel they shouldn't. Choose people in your life that will give back at least a little. (Read my status)
I also believe that we do things for people because that is the kind of heart we have, not because we expect something in return. However, your friends sound very selfish and I just have to say that I would move on. You will always have DS where you can vent, you can cry, and you can ask for help. There will always be someone here to support you. Keep that in your heart.
Does your brother not have a computer so you can e mail back and forth? Or I guess some computers have a way to see one another when you talk. I think mine has a webcam but I don't know how to use it. A lap top would be really beneficial for a student.
And if it makes you feel any better, I too have a mother that I can't talk to. I am either called a liar, I don't know what I'm talking about, or she just likes to mentally abuse me. I don't have the privilege of hanging up on her because I moved her into my Mobile Home when I bought it. Please know you can post what you are going through, and not worry about what people think of you. If they don't agree with your life style, then it's best they don't say anything at all.
Hugs GB
PinterestFan
PinterestFan
It's great that you have one supportive person, and you should let him know it would mean a lot to you to just talk a few minutes, a few times a week.

If you will thoroughly check into it, there has to be gay support groups - here's something from google: www.gaylifeuk.com/helplines-a-support-groups.html

Sending good thoughts and hope things improve soon.