Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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confuserated
confuserated

There is not a person on this earth that does not intimidate and terrify me. I never know how to behave, how to talk, Emotions are a wash out on either side if ever emotions become involved I my panic kicks up like a horror story, I lack in everything, so it just gets darker and bleaker, I just fight to get through each day, I am beginning to realise I will likely never have a real connection with anyone romantic or otherwise. Though even in my stronger days it was still useless, so shit kinda sucks.

peterthegreat
peterthegreat
A lot of people never have have romantic connection with someone they like. It is not easy.
Bluebird20
Bluebird20
Maybe you've been hurt by some people and that makes you not trust people. Stay on this sight and keep reaching out. No one can live without people though. Don't give up on yourself. You may be a little awkward at first, but give yourself a chance. People aren't all bad. Start in a nonthreatening situation. Do you buy your own groceries? Do you live with someone? Maybe join the YMCA when it reopens and use the exercise machines. Be a good listener, be pleasant. Things will turn around.
confuserated
confuserated
In my 40 years I have tried nearly everything, from being myself to being what people want to alcohol, with a 100% fail rate, since I burnt out I don’t have the strength to hold my Aspergers and anxiety and everything else hidden, I have never been accused of being a poor listener or unhelpful, I just have never had anything worth being interested in it would appear. I have helped people from abusive relationships (these are not people I went after though I was a useful tool as I have been to everyone, I can build confidences, I will help people without wanting anything). All I am is a useful tool, take what you need or want then throw me away I won’t give a whimper and will be there when they need anything (this is all non sexual). There just isn’t any point, I got to accept my place.
Intimacy is a bit thing with me, and everything from hugs up as well as psychological and emotional are extremely intimate to me, might as well all be the same thing, I will likely not know physical contact or affection but again that’s what I am I don’t think I deserve it especially some of the more soul destroying stuff but people will do what’s best for them, I just am never part of it.
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