I'm really feeling the same way. I've been on here non stop because I feel like I have no one I can turn to except random strangers that I barely know who are here for me more than my friends or boyfriend is... If you need a chat I'm here :)

It's very hard to develop quality relationships these days, I'm often more comfortable on here than in real life, this is a great place to come when you feel like this. I've noticed sometimes people would hug others and not me, but I think it is because of me, my posture, giving a vibe of not wanting to be hugged, etc. Over the years, I think that has changed and I haven't had that issue as much, but it is possible that by wanting it so much you are giving off a vibe or body language of not wanting it?

Just pet a dog or cat and you will get that affection. No good looks, money or dealing with bullshit required.

For me sometimes I want that affection but I'm afraid of getting hurt in the process. I know life is about learning who to or not to trust but sometimes you get to a point that you are tired of the lessons and just always keep a close eye of people because these days no matter how long you have known a person they can end up hurting you anyways. Anyhow everyone deserves a chance but you can't just be naive.

i get the same thing! i finally gave up. sometimes i look at the groups and think..why am i not included in that? i'm fun to be around, have great humour and am a good friend and buddy..
ah..i figure they're all shallow and i'm too deep and that's probably why they dont get me. i'm real, im the real deal, with real feelings and emotions, have real experiences that have made me who i am.
i guess we're just not that superficial kind and we should be happy for that. that's what makes me so lonely..b/c i can't find other deep souls like mine.

I agree with reply #3.. Pets can be a good friend.. Kind of like garfield...lol.

um, what about family?

Looks like so many of us in the same boat. Pets are marvellous and I love mine dearly but unfortunately don't make up completely for conversation, support and love from a human. Sigh. I would love a hug from someone too or a cuddle up on the couch watching tv, things others take for granted.

First off, I would just like to thank everyone for responding, and there are some of you I need to respond back to.

P00hbear: I don't think so, but I can't say for certain. I feel like I've tried everything, so who knows.

Pinkfloyd: On the pet issue, I have an aquatic turtle that hisses at me whenever I so much as clean his filter, I'm not sure he can offer the comfort I need.

Sboffoli: Ahh, family. Let's just say no one could ever accuse my family of being 'touchy feely'.

A part of me feels like I should offer one big group hug to everyone seeing as I'm not the only one feeling like this.

I'm sorry to hear u r having a hard time.

i am one of the lonely i have a pet cat he so sweet but i find this does not take the place of person.

i know how you feel, it seems like girls never wana touch me and believe me they dont. im not good looking but i dont think im that repulsive but maybe i am or at least thats how i feel.
it hard seeing everyone affectionate and you getting nothing, it sucks.
i guess theres just something about me that says girls dont touch him he got cooties or something

i am kinda phobic of people touching me too. i started out with hand shakes and worked my way from there. th thing is not rushing your self.i dont want to sound rude but i started with hand shakes because i knew i could use liquid sanitizer to wash my hands.

Physical affection is nice, but I only think it is good if it is a true expression of caring and love. I get affection from my family. I also agree that pets are nice, and I get affection from my dog. It would be nice to have a girlfriend, but that brings the issue back to finding the right person, which is hard. I don't want to just love someone so I can love someone. I want it so be someone that is truly compatible.

So I am lonely, and on DS. I really am happy there is a group just for loneliness.

I would find it very strange if I ever found someone that wanted physical affection.
Holding hands. Kissing. Holding someone in my arms. Things that seem so foreign.

me too. I am so lonley and just wish I had someone to just hold me to start anyway. My marriage of 20+ years is over and he had the audacity to say I didnt have the assertvieness to find someone else. My replay was , that isnt true Im jusat not a wh*&^. I am so lonley foir affection, I dont know what to do anymore, except find a way to move on.