Main question - do you like her? Do you want to be in a relationship with her?

Relationships are tricky! I've not long finsihed with someone I was seeing for 7 months after he said that it was never going to get serious for him. The problem is, I'd fallen for him. So, now, I'm fighting to get my self sorted, and to move on.

But the point is, although it didn't work out, I took the chance. And if I meet someone else, I'll take the chance again. Because at least that way I wont spend the rest of my life wondering if I had missed something amazing!!

Hope it all works out for you! xx

I think you should do what ever makes you happy. Life is about taking leaps, and it seems like this girl took a leap for you. You don't have to accept for her sake but if you so accept it should be for your sake. When starting a relationship you do need to be a little selfish, though that's not the best way to say it. What I mean by that is when starting a relationship with someone or simply finding someone you need look for things and do what is best for you because if you compromise yourself for someone else what is that really saying, Part of the leap is hoping there is someone out there that likes the same things that you do and if there is then that's all you need. Now, I'm 22 and can relate, I want nothing in this world more than a girlfriend. But I also know that if I just date someone for the sake of doing and not because I truly want to be with that person it won't work. All in all just remember you not getting married and you're just dating. If it was meant to be than nothing can stop you and what will be will be.

Hey man, you never know.
Just take it as it comes and enjoy life.
if it starts feeling too deep for you slow down.
and then let her know and tell her why.
most regrets come from not trying.
not taking that chance.
Life's an adventure, live it.

Hi there - everything in life is a risk and some risks mean we may get hurt and some risks works out successfully for us. And if we do not take risks, then we get no where. Just take it one day at a time and give it a chance and take a risk. It just may turn out the best decision you have ever made.

No one ever wants to get hurt. It is a hard pain to get through. But life is filled with all sorts of challenges. If you truly want that wonderful relationship, you must risk it. Put your heart out there and see where it goes. You can't feel the joys of loving someone when you don't take the chance.

Good luck...
big hugs

I agree with all the comments you got so far about taking chances being an important part of life. How well do you know her? What do you do together? Do you love her? Or do you need to get to know her better?

Just wanted to add that, you're the only one who knows what you want - once you've figured that out, you'll know what to do x

There is no guarantee with any relationship. If you think you love her, then go for it. Put your previous relationship behind you.

I guess the the thing is you can get hurt emotionally doing anything in life. You just need to ask yourself if you like her. Not just say what if its me that dosent stand up to her expectations what if its her that dosent do anything for you.
RElationships are very hard it dosent matter who you are.
Follow you heart and hopefully it will lead you the right direction.