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Can't Accept the fact....

karanhere
karanhere
Hi.
I have started liking a girl a lot but I haven' t talk to her but I keep looking at her and she knows how I feel.
The problem is that I get this feeling that Why a girl like that would go for me?
She has guys wanting her all around and to her I may seem like just another guy.

I like her a lot and I can't even think of her rejecting me.
She has her b'day in a couple of weeks and I want to do something special for her.

Any ideas??????
deleted_user
deleted_user
do you know her well enough to know her interests and tastes? if so go for a present that shows you have paid attention, something that would speak to her. someone did this for me once, and it has really stuck with me.

or perhaps take this as an opportunity to ask her out, say something to the affect of wanting to take her out to celebrate her b-day. is there anything that she has mentioned that she's always wanted to try?
deleted_user
deleted_user
She won't know if you are "just another guy" until she officially gets to know you. You mention that you are confident and assertive.....maybe put all that confidence and assertiveness and put it to work. You never know until you try. If you don't give it a chance you may kick yourself later for not giving it a try. Rejection is the hard part.......let your confidence shine through for you - just don't be overly confident. Be yourself............you appear to have a lot to offer. Just my opinion and suggestion. Don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable by any means. It's all up to you to make the final decision. Good Luck!