I only have anxiety when I try to work. Thanks God! I heard worst stories. I think Youtube have videos teachs how fight fear of aloneless.

You have described me too. I am so lonely most days and nights. I have a Mom and a cat. Both are precious to me. I do fear being alone without them. My only time of feeling not alone is at work but I work by myself most of the time.
I might be able to make it by myself but it sure would not be pleasant. I crave companionship. I want to share my life with someone.

Hello- I’m very sorry you feel alone. I used to feel this way but since I started attending church regularly and join a life group, it made me feel I belong to a family.

Please stay strong, I pray that you will get the help you need to stay well and will have the strength each day to keep going. Take care.

I hope you are feeling better. Perhaps you might consider joining a Meetup Group. I understand what it feels like to be alone. I have been married for 24 years and always feel alone. My soon to be ex husband does nothing with me, however I enjoy being around people so I find a meet up and join them on one of their many excursions. These groups are quite friendly they are designed for people who don't have many friends and don't like going to places alone. Again, I wish you well.

Fear of being alone is an instinctual human fear that more of us share than don't. It's the most normal thing in the world to feel as you do, Anxieties are complicated and specific... you know yours and how they contribute to your feelings.,, but again in this regard you are not alone.

First... take care of yourself. Eat well and exercise as much as you can. Step 1 is to be here. You can't move to Step 2 otherwise.

You have a start... your Faith and perhaps as Eli_Mom has done, your church can give you that sense of family and purpose that would help you.

But you're here... you are not alone. I'm brand new here... but this place exists for you to come and share... to type out your feelings and to get a catharsis. At some point we all will need to put our foot out the door and confront our fears and our loneliness.

I’m also scared of being alone. Especially when my relationships fail. I’ve taken bouts of time for myself & put myself out there and am just let down over and over. Its hard some days just wishing I had a partner to support and love me and to live life together-not being alone. But, there’s no one.

I can relate. My youngest son and his fiance are moving out soon which will leave me behind.

When anxiety bothers you that means you're afraid of something. The big question is what are you afraid of? See, i battle feelings that if nobody is in my house and I'm not doing anything for anybody, then I'm irrelevant and what's the point of me. But that's foolhardy and a feeling I have to battle from my youth. What is it that you are afraid of? Liz Lemon, played by Tina Fey, was afraid of being alone and choking. I doubt that's you but something bothers you. Could be the fear that nobody will be there to comfort you when you need comforting. That's a good one too.

my plans are to surround myself with things and people which will at least fill my life. This forum is a place, an example, but certainly not the same as having somebody there whenever you need them. Unfortunately we all have to cope with our crosses.