I like music a lot but cannot think of favorite song...there are so many...I like one which is just instrumental by Pat Metheny who is my favorite artist...the one I am thinking of is called Last Train Home....here is link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qmJdCpEPIWs

wow that version of that song was really cool to see on youtube....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qmJdCpEPIWs

Do not know. Guess it would depend upon the movie.

New question: if you were addicted to kinky sex would you seek help in some form perhaps therapy or 12step programs?

I really like this discussion - but the questions and replies seem to have stalled. I'm not going to answer a question about 'kinky sex' or any other kind for that matter. This isn't a sex blog.
I'd rather stick to the subject of this support group, "LONELINESS".

What do you try to do to break the LONELINESS when you really want to try?
For me, I'm on the computer and I really like to read these posts. I then feel like I am not alone, there are others out there just like me.

The question I leave here is "is there any thing you still or really ENJOY doing, (please not sex related) , Maybe an activity like watching a movie or eating a favorite food?" Maybe your answer will motivate some of us to try it and bring a little ENJOYMENT into our lives too.

When the Canadian Geese arrive at the lake at the Park, I love to be there and they arrive in groups of about 25. It's like watching planes come in at an airport. They are magnificent and they glide just above the water seemingly without any effort. And then the next group arrives, and the next and the next. It's the best.

MY QUESTION TO ALL: If you could be a character on TV, which character (cartoon, robot, human, etc.) would you be??

I would want Julia Roberts to play me because she is capable of convincingly playing a wide range of emotions and mine seem to change from minute to minute.

MY QUESTION: What one thing could change in your life right now that would make you happier?

Not being shy.

If you could meet any person past or present who would it be and why?

Who would I want to meet, past or present & why? I would want to meet Oprah Winfrey. To give me advice on all aspects of my life. And to finance the business I would love to own.

QUESTION: In such a superficial world, does it really pay to be nice?

it cannot hurt to be nice....

what does a dollar mean to you?

If I had a biographical film created of my life story, I would wish for Sophia Loren to play me... Some people have said I look like her (not!)... But I love her natural elegance, grace, and beauty...

Answer: This world in which we live is a quandry... I firmly believe in being kind and gracious to those with whom I come into contact... Not necessarily for them, but for myself and being able to sleep at night knowing I did the best I could for somoene else...

Question: What is your deepest hope?

Answer - my deepest hope is that my husband sees how hard I am trying, even after all the pain.

Question - If you could describe yourself with a type of plant, what plant would it be?

gosh that is easy Beatles....

opps Question...

what are you able to do without?

Keeping in the spirit of this Loneliness support group, I find it very difficult (though not impossible) to live without daily human interaction or contact. When I was able to "DO lot's of things" for the other people in my life, I had lots of human interaction. People asking me to lend them money - until I got a mortgage and couldn't, many times helping people move, until my truck (91 Nissan) got too old to be reliable.
Lot's of times "FRIENDS" are only around when "you" can do stuff for "them".

Question: What is one thing a "friend" did to you, or maybe did not do when you asked for help, that really hurt or disappointed you?