Dont doubt too much or youll doubt everything around you. People make mistakes, So do yourself a favor hotshot, make that call and pretend nothing like that happened and talk about something funny that happened to you the other day.

Take it SLOW and don't obsess. Give it a couple of days and call her again. Talk about all the cool things you've been doing and ask about the cool things she's been doing. Depending on her reaction, you'll know where you stand.

yeah wait to call her a few days. you can play it one of 2 ways. either dont even mention she didnt call. and try to act like you also have been busy, so its no big deal. then try again, ask if she would like to go out, see how it goes. its all part of the phony dating game crap ive never been able to to stomach.

the other option is to be more direct, which ive always preferred, cuz i never liked wasting time if the girl is one that just likes to date alot of guys, or if she just doesnt seem to feel there is any potential for more than friendship there. in that case of the 2nd scenario you might call and say, hey ya didnt get back to me the other night, but i know things come up and all. that gives her a chance to insert an apology, sincere or otherwise. depending on what she says back, how glad she seems you called, and her apology, you can respond with either asking her out, or if she seems cool either take that as a sign, chit chat a bit and prepare to make your exit, assuming there is nothing there. or if she is hard to read, just go ahead and ask if she feels there is a potential for more than a friendship with you two, or does she view you as just a friend. if she says just friends, say thats cool, i just wanted to know. maybe direct, but at least you will know and wont bother calling and being put off again, wish does pain the heart. best of luck.

I'd have to say play the game and don't even mention the call. Since you're just in the initial stages, there's no reason to make her feel cornered or guilty. It's water under the bridge. Hopefully she'll apologize anyway, but if she doesn't, blow it off.

Call her up, chat her up (about fun stuff) and ask her out. If she says yes, you'll find out all you need.

I agree..everything worthwhile doesn't come easy and it takes time....Try your best not to jump to conclusions because you can hurt both your and her feelings and lose her friendship and any shot at a relationship with her.

Tom B. aka Ihman

Ah, this is tough but I agree with what everyone else said. It's some good advice. Neediness is not good but neither is just quitting. Have some confidence...call her again after some time....and just be as genuine as possible. Wish you well on it...

I agree with everyone else in giving it a couple of days before calling her again. The thing that you really want to remember is that she told you that you can be friends. Sometimes friendships turn into relationships and sometimes they do not.

You seem like a nice and sensitive guy, so she might have been trying to let you down easy that she just is not interested in you by agreeing to be friends. If she doesn't return your next call, then she may be trying to blow you off. Also, be careful because unscrupulous women can just use you because of your attraction to them.

My ultimate advice is not to become so hung up on one girl.

Thanks for the suggestions...
I guess if its meant to happen it will happen....