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Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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Another downfall to being alone

lonelyscorpio
lonelyscorpio
So I spill ice tea and it runs under the fridge. Now as a woman living alone, I now had to move the fridge and clean under it. Hoping I got it all and also hoping I don't sever the water line for the ice maker as I am pushing it back in.
Having a man in the house for stuff like that is something good.

I don't want the bum back and am not ready for a new one.

But...having help would of been nice.

Just having a moment...This is SO difficult for me.
gramybear
gramybear
I agree, not worth having a bum come back! Do you have a neighbor or any male friends that would be willing and able to help you? I am fortunate that my best friend Tom is a male and now my son is living with me for as long as he can while he goes to school. Please be careful when you move or lift anything heavy, okay? I hope you can find someone near by that would be willing to help you. Gentle hugs. GB
lonelyscorpio
lonelyscorpio
I have no real life friends :( sad I know. And my family lives far away for something like that.
Thanks for the reply, at least I have friends here
billwfriend
billwfriend
sorry you had to find your own help the way you did....
lynnenunya
lynnenunya
I know how you feel. Lonely can be a problem. But it can be nice too. ;-) You dont really have to answer to anyone. Unfortunately I do.
I imagine lonely times have their moments?
I always seem to be asking myself, WHY cant people be nice...

I was lucky to have a dad that taught me how to do many things. Guess im a Jill of all trades so to speak.
I haven't talked to my family in many years. Probably...15. Except a few years ago when my dad died. The nurses told my sisters he was ha ging on to hear from me. They hated that. After the phone call he passed away in half a hour. I wish I had a normal family...

I hope you will feel better. Sometimes a walk, a bath or just going somewhere can help?
koolman
koolman
Agree, you don't need a bum, you need a help-mate. Thanks for sharing
annettearizona
annettearizona
You might with your neighborhood church who is always willing to help someone out.
I also always suggest to keep busy and get involved with hobbies/crafts and even volunteer work
gustokitty
gustokitty
I can relate.
But would rather be alone, that with some of the jerk wads out there.
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