Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
Sooooo.....it's been since Feb. that I've been single. I've pushed myself to move on and see other guys but I have terrible luck. Like my favorite was when I was talking to this guy and he kept asking me to take my bra off and tried to feel me up. That;s not even that craziest scenario.
It's now July (oh, hey birthday month!) and I am STILL pining over my ex. I miss him so much and write poetry about it. In my sick and diluted head I picture him showing up on my birthday and I run up to him and hug him....HE is what I want for my birthday. Is that crazy?
I feel lonely and I wish for someone to come into my life and make it worth living again. I have so much to offer and I'm sick of being a welcome mat.
Helppp :\
It's now July (oh, hey birthday month!) and I am STILL pining over my ex. I miss him so much and write poetry about it. In my sick and diluted head I picture him showing up on my birthday and I run up to him and hug him....HE is what I want for my birthday. Is that crazy?
I feel lonely and I wish for someone to come into my life and make it worth living again. I have so much to offer and I'm sick of being a welcome mat.
Helppp :\
You are hanging on, and creating your own pain. It is hard, but you have to do it for yourself. Many here know you rain, and they also know i am right. You are drawing out your pain longer than it has too. A new man will not bring you happiness, and if you expect that the relationship will, it will not work out. You need time to grieve first, and get yourself together. You are in no current condition to date right now. Another relationship will just be a rebound, specially if you expect them to bring you happiness.
Some good people in here, that will go out of there way you talk to you, and help you. Just ask, ok. :)
I've been struggling to do just that since the last guy I was going out with two years ago borrowed my car, got drunk and wrecked it. I thought he was the love of my life (don't we always think that, though) and it's been really hard to let that go and learn to be happy alone again. ~ But it's getting there, one day at a time.
Keep busy, do things you enjoy, and connect with friends and family. Don't wait around for someone else to make your life worthwhile again; do it yourself.
Some relationships are deeper than others and you may have to kiss several frogs before you find your prince.
Just remember that if it was meant to be it will be. Take some time to really think about this. Is it possible that you don't actually miss this guy but instead it's how deep the relationship was that you actually are missing? If that's the case then you will just have to keep trying. If you think you truly miss this guy then maybe you owe it to yourself to reach out to him and tell him how you feel. It may be hard to do but you might only live once. It wouldn't hurt to try and even if you don't reconcile it will be easier to let go knowing you tried.
Best of luck to you!