Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
There is this girl, shes a surviver of childhood abuse, and sexual abuse. She hates herself most people abandon her like shes trash. she managed to have a child, shes is living with her ex since she has nowhere else to go. he is abusive and controlling and shes letting him. i have spent alot of my time trying to help her feel better and to be able to say no ect. now shes giving into hims and it looks as thought our friendship is over. which is sad since the only friends we both have are each other. i dont want to abandon her but i cant keep this up she seems to hate me now, and all shes does is be mean to me. ive been trying to help her with her problems but now it feels like she doesnt care anymore.
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Do you think anxiety is genetic or comes from your environment? What are your thoughts?
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Many of you know Mr K told me to "shut your mouth" in March 2025 when we took a road trip to Alpena Michigan. Since that time, we have had lots of ups and downs but I have never intentionally hurt Mr K in anyway. And when we first started dating in 2024 he let me know, although he is an engineer by degree, he has an extremely low EQ. Overall, he is ok (not off the charts nice like other guys in...
This is going to sound cruel, but if she has decided, after the help you have offered her, that this is how she is going to live her life then there really isn't much you can do. Especially if she is treating you poorly while you are attempting to help her. As kind as you are, you also need to look after yourself and if maintaining this friendship is causing you this much stress then it isn't worth it.
You can also take a break from her for a little while, if that is a bit better.
Good luck!
It's really painful to watch people who we care about suffer and it's even more painful and difficult to let go when there isn't much else we can do. I'm familiar with the feeling of wanting someone you care about who is in pain to reach out to you for help, but when that isn't happening it can be a tough pill to swallow.
Everyone's genetic makeup, life experiences, beliefs, and morals are different. It's taken me 29 years to realize that not everyone has the same kind of caring heart that I do, so I have to be careful not to let myself get emotionally attached to people who don't understand and treat me with the same respect and kindness that I treat them, no matter how badly I may want it.
Don't stop caring about others, just look after your own well being, mental health, and state of mind more closely!
Goodluck!
You have to look out for yourself now. Now yes its true that maybe someday she will come to her senses and want to be your friend again, and weather you accept her back into your life or not is your decision. But for right now, you need to stop letting her take you down like this.