Life After Divorce Support Group
This community is dedicated to starting over after a divorce. With the marriage over, how do individuals begin a new chapter in their lives and what hurdles do they face? Divorce is often one of the most traumatic periods in a person's life. Studies show it is the second-most stressful event in life, after the death of a spouse.
i have been divorced for almost 5 years now and i have remarried for 2 years this august. but really my problem stems from first marraige, i was "married:" to my high school boyfriend we were together for almost 10 years had one kid together and when she was almost 2 our relationship deteriorated we went through a nasty custody battle which i won due to his employment we had alot of mutual friends actually i would say that 90% of our friends were mutual durring the divorce at their asking i kept them out of the arguments and goings on and tried like hell to keep their friendships but he was getting them involved in everything and after all was said and done he had a stack of lies from them to give to his lawyer about how horrible i was to him while i had a stack of emails telling me how much he was bad for me and they were glad i left him finally. but still not fully my point of interest here, these friends have back stabbed me over and over and now i am left with only 2 friends that talk to me and are actually friends how do you get over this? its not bad enough that my marriage ended but i lost all my friends as well? but they wont leave me alone they talk their way back into my life just to steal my pictures off my face book and send them to him and tell him everything that i am doing , every face book status i write they send it to him has anyone ever gone through this ??? any advice i know i need to walk away and i am trying but we were all freinds for over 15 years its hard to walk away from people you considered family for the longest time
If someone was updating my ex on what I was doing now I wouldn't really consider them a friend. Your life now is none of his business and apparently this person or people are more on his side than yours for whatever reason. Divorce is that way...2 stories but most people only hear one side and so they form opinions based on that alone. Everyone loses friends, it has happened to all of us. Just focus on the good ones that remain good friends.
Make your Facebook as private as you can. My ex actually found my Facebook page and asked about my relationship status (I put it was complicated...) that kinda creeped me out...STALKER!