I left my husband nine months ago. We have a six year old daughter together. Today we still see each other romantically but I cannot consider returning to the relationship.

I am an adult child of an alocholic and am growing painfully aware of the symptoms of this. My first husband was an alcoholic and verbally abusive. I ended up leaving him basically on a whim. He was blown away and never saw it coming. The problem is my second husband said the same thing. When I process what happened I am unclear. My Mother passed away in March and I left him in May. There were problems in our marriage but i don't think they were enough to leave the marriage and yet I did.

I met someone else and began a relationship with that person before I even took time to heal from my marriage ending. The person I was seeing is wonderful but we are not compatible. I see some cyclical patterns and just wonder if I am alone on this.

I had a car accident which was very traumatic, the other lady died and I spent the next three years in recovery and having 29 surgeries to put me back together. The final surgery I had allowed me to walk again and it was then that I left my first husband.

I have lost both my parents and my brother in the last five years. After my Mother dies I leave my second husband. It seems as though I cannot attach with any sense of permanency.