Liars Anonymous Community Group
A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!
Things are generally working out fairly well. Following my plan and doing the things that have helped me to not lie and to rebuild my relationship what's my wife has made life so much better. I do realize this is a long process to fix all the messes I have made, but I have hope that it will work. I have to keep on working and making things better.
1) Figure out who you are right now.
2) Decide who you want to be for real.
3) Come up with a plan to get to the person you want to be, (education, money, personality, etc., the things you usually lie about).
4) Discuss 1, 2 and 3 with your significant other.
5) Discuss it with your SO every day (this is important).
This is a very generalized version. For example, with me;
1) is that I am a liar with issues of feeling like I have to be able to do it all, or at least look like I am doing it all (which I wasn't, hence the lies)
2) I want to be someone who can accept my inabilities, and be okay with knowing that I can't do it all, that I need to be a partner with my wife, and keep here in the loop.
3) My plan is to go over the money with my wife every day, read scriptures every day, read from this blog and comment on it every day. I want to be a better provider and need to better my education to get a better job and/or make my business more profitable.
4) and 5) are pretty self explanatory, but they help me stick with the plan and help my wife know I am sticking with the plan and gives here some security, which helps our relationship.
See what you think, and let me know if you have any other questions.