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First Kiss

hunnynutty
hunnynutty
So I have been dating someone new. She invited me over to her place today. It was the first time we have been alone as the other dtaes have been public.
Shes very nice and I like her alot.
We were at her place just snuggling on the couch and watching a movie. and well she leaned in and kissed me. It was nice but I didnt feel the big spark. I am not sure if its a good thing or not.
Just dunno if its a sign that its not gonna work out.
deleted_user
deleted_user
This is my opinion and popular opinion as well...chemistry is a necessary ingredient for the makings of a romantic relationship. It is what seperates friends from lovers. I don't think you need to jump ship immediately, as it is possible that nerves or something could have distracted you from feeling that "spark" but if, after this happens a few more times you still don't feel it than I don't think you even need anybody to tell you anything. You will just naturally lose interest in this woman as a potential lover and partner.
Don't settle for something less than what you want. It's kind of sad when somebody really nice who you really like doesn't measure up to your romantic expectations, but you can't force these things. Good luck hon.
deleted_user
deleted_user
The spark that some feel with that first kiss can be important but then again maybe not. Ask yourself if your attracted to her sexually,and emotionally if you answer no to either one chances are it won't last I'm sorry but there both important factors in any relationship. Take it slow. Think and feel your way through this one. Maybe she'll just make a better friend. Good luck.
deleted_user
deleted_user
May be you were thinking that would place and as it happened you felt the absence of nervous reacting to it. I advice you keep kool and put your interest on equal proportion. I thnk you will have a good out come.
Best of lucks dear.