Jealousy Support Group

Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...

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Where is mine?

Rivasllene
Rivasllene
I see all these people around me, men and women alike who are just so beautiful. They shine from within. Whatever it is, they have found their "own" beauty. They may not seem beautiful to the general world, but I see it.
And I wonder...why can't I find mine? What makes me so horrible to myself? No, I am to a knockout, I may not even be pretty. But what is most important is how much we care about ourselves and love ourselves. That is what makes the light shine through.
So why can i not find it?
charliegirl29
charliegirl29
You have to believe its there......what will it take for you to believe?
Empathy66
Empathy66
When your noticing all theses pple shining and thinking how wonderful they are, what are you doing? Are you sitting there and thinking about all your flaws you think you have?
2 pple at a party, in 2 separate groups, 1 is engaging and enjoying the moment of being with friends, the other is sitting and thinking about how awkward she feels. 2 pple giving off very different body language, which one would pple warm to?
Next time try and think of your good qualities and maybe you will shine and pple will see it : )
I know its hard, i'm struggling myself, we need to focus more on "living" and less time on thinking..
deleted_user
deleted_user
wow you sound exactly like me! i cant stand seeing so many beautiful women because i feel so blah. but you have to remind myself that THOSE women are jealous of others (most likely or i'd like to think) and there are those who are jealous of us (or so i'd like to think - ha!). but most women seem to find flaws with themselves - even the beautiful ones. and sometimes we see what others don't when we all pick ourselves apart. we have to keep reminding ourselves (as hard as it can be) that we all have our own beauty and the more we believe in that with ourselves the more it will shine through, making us even more beautiful. :)
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