No your right there isnt, but i dont know if your aware there are groups that pple start themselves.
there is a self esteem loving ourselves and a no confidence and no self esteem that i found. If you click on my profile or other pples you can see on the right hand side the support groups they belong too and under that, groups pple have founded. Ive got 10, but to be honest some of them dont have much going on in them, i dont know why that is.

Hey Rivasllene,
How's the new years resolution going? Any tips to share? I can honestly say I hate myself most of the time...would love to feel different :)

This is a great idea and one that I have implemented myself here and there through out my life but somehow i always go back to beating myself up mentally. I am extremely negative and always look at the bad before the good. I think I will implement this once again for the new year with you. The glass is either half empty or half full. It's all about how you "choose" to look at it. I have been looking at the glass half empty for forever. Time for half full. Let's see how long it lasts.

lk, things are going pretty good so far! How about you??? i still struggle a bit with the thoughts that my husband deserves better than me i.e. my best friend lol, but i really have been working on dealing with it better and acknowledging the reality of the situation. It's is hard though.
Crossing theBorder, thank you for taking up the challenge with me! I too have always had a tendency to attack myself mentally. But I have hope that it can get better for both of us. I have been trying harder thank i ever have before and it is definitely harder to do something about it than to not!

I too, accept this challenge. Though the negative emotions are so strong sometimes that they cannot be fought, I will accept that. I will do all that is in my ability to think positive, and the rest is up to god.

Self esteem is the most important thing in a person's life. Nobody can do without it. There must be some sort of supportive group to help build self-esteem.
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Things aren't going so well with me :(
I argued with my BF last night, which stinks since we're leaving for Cuba on Sunday and I don't even feel like going. We aregued about his ex, and than it turned into him saying that I have a problem with his daughter because I have a problem with his mother. How can he say that?? For the last 2 years his daughter has lived half of the time with us, and I love her like my own daughter (mine is 9 today, his is 7). Sometimes I even treat his daughter better!! He tried to come back and say he didn't mean it like that but it turned into me hosting and enjoying my own pity party. He obviously doesn't think I'm a very good person, and I'm beginning to agree. I hate how I feel about myself, and I hate how I think he feels about me. I don't know what to do anymore. I wish that I was so confident that it didn't matter what others said, I would know in my heart that they are wrong. I just don't understand why he is even with me, or what the point is in continuing the relationship. It just stinks.

Sorry..another rough day for me :(

Theres a low self esteem group on here!

scon4, i know it is hard to not believe the negative thoughts, but i am so glad that you want to try!!

and lk, I'm sorry you are having a bad day. i am not looking forward to my next one, but i am definitely not going to lie to myself, i know it's coming lol. I often wonder as well why my husband continues to be with me after what i have put him through but....our guys ARE still with us. i think they would have already given up on us, don't you?
it seems like you are a wonderful mother (to both daughters) and you have to give yourself credit for that! being a parent is the hardest thing ever, for reals, so give yourself a pat on the back please. and go back to what you said about hating how you feel about yourself and hating how you THINK he feels about you which is just that: we can't ever know what people are really thinking about us. But in our case i think it's safe to say that we are harder on ourselves than anyone else, so why don't we give ourselves a break?
hopefully this helps. i don't even really know you and i can FEEL that you're worth it all so please think about that :)

Hey! I found an awesome video that will totally help us with positive thinking and Affirmations: I already felt better after one time of listening to it,
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CX0goHZ7ts4

Thanks for your kind words Rivasllene :)
Crossing, I will check that out when I get home from work

I'm having a better day today..we can do this together :)

Crossing, this was a great video! It was so relaxing and the photots were amazing. Thanks for sharing it!

and lk, i hope we all have a good day today :)

Here are the positive affirmations from the video.
1. Everyday I get better and better.
2. I am safe and secure.
3. I am at the right place and the right time.
4. The more calm and relaxed I am, the better I can handle any situation.
5. I recognize that it is useless to stress over things I cannot change.
6. I choose to live in the present moment.
7. I worry less and less about the future.
8. Everyday I choose to replace negative thoughts with positive ones.
9. I choose to remain positive and optimistic regardless of the situation.
10. I am willing to adopt a positive attitude from now on.
11. Taking good careof myself helps me to reduce stress.
12. I enjoy doing activities that help me to relax and contributes to my overall well being.
13. Every day when I take a deep breath, I feel calm, relaxed, safe and secure.
14. The more calm and relaxed I am the more productive I can be at work.
15. The more calm and relaxed I am the healthier I become.
16. The more calm and relaxed I am, the more I can enjoy life.
17. Life is more enjoyable when I feel good.
18. I now feel more confident that I can handle difficult situations.
19. My motivation and confidence increase everyday.
20. Whatever is going on in my life, I know this too shall pass.
21. I choose to be a more relaxed, positive, optimistic and confident person.
22. Everyday I can manage stressful situations in a much better way.
23. Everyday I feel more in control of my feelings and emotions.
24. I know that everything will be ok in the end.

Building esteem is a first step towards your happiness and a better life. If you have low confidence or low self esteem you will find it impossible to be the person you could be and your happiness will be limited.
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LOL, because ppl here would tear them to pieces!