ok here i go......................i found some text in my bf of ten years phone about 8 months ago and went the fck off. i talked to the chick on the phone about what was going on and lets just say it left me completely heartbroken. i moved out with our daughter and swore to myself i would never speak to him again...............cut to now i had time to get over the initial devistation and realized that i still love him and he is human and people make mistakes. he has always been the jealous person, he likes noone that takes my attention off of him and at first i found it kind of cute now its gettn old, but this is not my dilemma........................my dilemma is that since we've gotten back together i am the jealous one, i worry about every chick that is around him ...........at school, at the store, i am paranoid about him cheating again and it doesnt help that he brags about how women tell him how handsome he is. ive been going through his phone, i can gps his phone and find his location which i do like 5 times a day, i even set up a fake facebook address and posted some chicks pic on it and friend requested him to get access to his page.....which by the way was nothing but women!!!!!!! i always said i would not stay with a cheater and until now i havent but i love him and we have a daughter and i want more than anything for us to be a family, but i cant get passed this i look for things but if i find something i just upset myself and stay anyway but its like im addicted to INVESTIGATING him as he puts it. any thoughts???