Jealousy Support Group
Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...
First off I'm bisexual and I've been with this girl for 9 months already and I'm crazy about her but we have had a hard relationship that has made trust hard and my jealousy occurring more often. I find myself getting jealous if she texts anyone! I feel like she is keeping the messages from me but I don't feel I should ask to see them. I also find myself getting jealous if she hangs out with certain ppl too. I especially get jealous if some guy/girl tries to get with her or make her leave me. Becuz of this jealousy we end up fighting a lot and sometimes I fear she will end it..I find myself crying a lot and feeling like I'm no good and she will find better than me. Am I bad for feelin this way? I don't like being this jealous but I can't help it...I want to be able to trust and not get jealous. What do I do??
Why is someone trying to get with her when she is already in a relationship? Thats completely disrespectful to you both!
How do you find out about these things? Does she tell you? If she does then it could be that she is actively causing your jealousy by making herself seem more desirable. Is her ego that fragile?
Of course, if someone came onto me or my man then that person would be out of our lives for good. Does she still see someone as a friend afterwards?
I may be wrong but I think she sounds like she is purposely putting you down to lift herself up. She could then moan about your jealousy to continue this?
You are certainly not bad for feeling like you do!
If I am wrong about your partner then think about why the trust went. There is always a reason that we react the way we do
CJulie-it's a tough spot cuz I'm in love with this girl, yea ik I'm only 17 and young, but I'm crazy in love and I've tried the caring less and it only makes the fights happen more cuz it makes me slowly stop being as passionate with her and it makes us drift..I just wanna not be so jealous cuz I don't wanna lose this girl..I've been in enough shitty relationships with guys. She is my everything and I'll do ANYTHING to save our relationship and make us inseparable.