Jealousy Support Group
Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...
Im jealous of my boyfriend's ex. He says she is just a friend but secretly I think he wants her back but she doesn't want him Im worried that they could get back together she has been liking my status of what were doing on facebook and commented on his facebook asking if he was back in the state she lives in. I tried talking too him saying I don't want too be in a competition with other women and he just said I was being stuiped. The ex wanted too get a job at his job but I told him I felt uncomfortable with that and he said he would tell her not too come and from then on never heard anything about it. I know he did cheat on her that's why they broke up. I cant stop worrying about her interference. I think they stay in contact but only sometimes.
if he has cheated, thats not a good sign
how often we settle for something less...it baffles me...i also choose and sometime settled for less than what i deserved or could securely accept
if you think he did it and could do it again you would feel nervous and anxious
and also its a policy each couple has to work out about whether to have any contact or not at all with an ''ex''
ex is an ex for a reason
its fine to be friends IF the significant other is comfortable with it
If you are uncomfortable with ANY contact at all or contact behind your back you must make that clear
if you stay in a situation where you are trying to accept something not acceptable to you or staying in an insecure situation yet putting on a brave face, the insecurity would still be there.
he must honour your feelings on this too.
I dont believe in giving a cheater the benefit of the doubt becuease they know what they were doing no excuses ever in my opinion .
So I wouldn't even give a cheater a chance at dating me.
From what I read .. that really sounds fishy I might be a jealous person myself . but her wanting to move there and work at his job.. Uh.. no what the heck..
I think you have ever right to think somethings up based upon all those reg flags.