Jealousy Support Group
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I was browsing through posts here in the jealousy group, and saw people talking about how they worried about there partners deleting the internet history on their pc's....
An old post had one member say that even if the history files get deleted you can still view what they have been up too by locating the cookies folder.
I always wondered what cookies were for and now I know, and maybe it will come in handy in the future for me just in case.
An old post had one member say that even if the history files get deleted you can still view what they have been up too by locating the cookies folder.
I always wondered what cookies were for and now I know, and maybe it will come in handy in the future for me just in case.
if he deletes the files hes more then liely to delete the cookies aswell.
i know i do!
however, it's a bad habit you do not want to get into. it will consume you if you're always checking cookies and files. same way with email accounts. i've spent too many hours going through computer files to only make myself feel worse and more paranoid. even though it's hard to avoid.
Plus people who delete cookies/history are the ones who are hiding something, I suppose it takes one to know one after all *wink*
maybe someone should make a group about you?
i delete them if i check his email or his facebook or any forums he is on through his email etc.
(i use to be big on that im not anymore)
keylogger is more the way to go these days you install it in secret, run it in secret and it logs his every move and he doesnt even know because it goes straight to ur email.
it keeps your head straight about things if he really isnt doing anything out of the ordinary, but it fucks with you BIG TIME if he is doing the "wrong" thing.
but i dont even use that now
why sit here hurting myself..its stupid !
i realised i dont need to know his every move.
anyway.. everytime i get off the net by habit i go to internet options and press delete cookies , temporary files, history, saved info and web information..
so he doesnt know i have been snooping..
and everyone who knows his/her way around a computer and has a porn/jealousy.other inernet related habit learns how to do this eventually.
xx
C:Documents and Settings...[INSERT USERNAME HERE]...Local SettingsHistory folder;
Does anyone know where i paste this, I wanna search my computer I just wanna see what comes up and Im stuck for knowing if i paste it somewhere or if its a folder i need to find?
with ur user name ofcourse
if that doesnt work just type "temporary internet files" into your "search" thingy.
>start
>search
>files and folders
>temporary internet files
i hope that helps you
:)
Peace
xx
I can remember a time in the VERY recent past where I could literally HEAR my computer talking to me..begging me to come check the history. I literally drove me nuts. I've stopped checking. I try to tell myself I don't care anymore.
I do admit though, that it kills me to leave him home alone..I'm sure he's watching porn when I'm not there, so I go out of my way to make sure he is hardly ever alone at home. It's such a terrible way to live, and I truly hope to get over this soon. I don't want to live my life around him..I want to come and go freely, and not worry about what he is doing.
I don't know what the answer is ladies..but finding a way to hack your computer isn't it.
my computer also use to 'call out to me' haha
if he got up to go to the toilet or shower or ANYTHING i would run in and check histroy.
i go out of my way to make sure he is NEVER home alone ..wich leaves me with no freedom and no life.
and also HIM no freedom also.
wich suffocates us.
i am trying so hard to get out of this rut.
i still check history not as in depth as a i use too..but over the past year he is either covering his tracks really well or he is being really good, he also assures me hes not doing anything bad. (i always ask him questions or say things like "please dont do anything bad" or "please dont do anything u know will piss me off" etc)
but he has assured me about that before..with a huge FAIL.
he was never an angry personw he i met him..but now he is just full of anger :( and we cant talk about anythig because he always thinks im attcking him even when im not..
i think ive destroyed him :(
and i dont know how to reverse it :(
my BF has changed since he's been with me too. He used to be so happy and laid back. Now he is an angrier person. Not all the time, but I definitely see the change.
And yes, not wanting him to be home alone has completely controlled my life. I used to attend a self-esteem women's group every other saturday for 2 hours. It was fine because we always had the kids on that weekend. Well, now the kids aren't home that weekend, so he would be home alone. Because of that, I've stopped going to the group, even though I know I really need it. I feel like I'm in jail - I've said it in other posts, my mind is my jail. There is no other way to describe it.
i wish i could hang out with people like you in real life. for coffee..to bitch and moan to eachother about things and help eachother.
but im truly alone here in australia..
i know ONe person from australia on DS and she is in a totally different support group with totally diff issues.
and she lives 2 states over anyway.
sigh.
im studying to be a councellor - because i think it will improve my life and give me more confidence, and will allow me to help myself and others in my/our situation.
ide love to be a relationship councellor and know exactly where they are coming from from past experiances.
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NOSTALIC...go to search type temporary internet files WALLA!