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I'm jealous on kids

rachelallen
rachelallen
I'm jealous on kids who make their dreams come true
If you'd have a chance to take music lessons, would you try to convince your parents to give you the money for tutoring? I'm sad I didn't do it when I was little.
deleted_user
deleted_user
So you didnt get lessons when you were little, whats stopping you now? You could always self teach. What would you like to learn and play?
rachelallen
rachelallen
piano, but i'm too busy with my family and work now :*
deleted_user
deleted_user
If this was really your dream, you would have found a way to get lessons for yourself before now. I learned how to play the piano, so I know it takes A LOT of time and practice to be any good, so even if you had learned - you probably wouldn't be playing now if you are so busy - not to sound rude, but my husband whines about not learning how to play the guitar and blames his Mom for not encouraging him....yet he had decades as an adult to pursue lessons, but made no effort - his energies went into less positive activities, that's why I'm on this forum :/
deleted_user
deleted_user
so defeatist!!

Emerald is absolutely right! What is stopping you now? You say work, family... No way, if you were that ambitious and wanted it so badly you would do it. Do you watch TV? ok, well, pick a show that you regularly watch and say, during the time this show is on, instead of watching it i am going to learn piano. Thta's an example, but there is surely 1 hour of your day, 3 days a week, where you are NOT doing something related to family or work? Surely!!! Listen, i changed my life completely, changed my career in the biggest way imaginable...and it was all done by assessing my life, time management, motivation, not giving in, making things happen. If you want it badly enough you can do it.

Don't dream it... BE it.