Jealousy Support Group
Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...
First I need to give you a little background since im pretty new around here.
My hubby is iranian living in iran and he is in the military he just got out of bootcamp (national service) so he isn't out his country. Before that he worked in another city (tehran) away from home. He worked with his friend (male) in an office which shared the building with other offices (where girls work). Nearer the end of his time there one of the girls started working with them in this tiny office lol. Anyway i have it in my head that he is/was seeing her.......
NOW he is back in his home city and working for the military, I told him I feel uncomfy at the thought of him going back to virit because I am so insecure. TODAY he has to go to base to find out where he will be stationed for the remaining months (I PRAY not back in Tehran). He heard it should be his home city which makes me feel better.
So he is todays problem.....his friend (today) text him today asking him when he is going back to tehran, okay i can cope with that, in the same convo he told me his other friend (male) who he is going to base with today told him they might need to stay there overnight, I can cope with that too...........
BUT what I CANT cope with is the thoughts running through my mind that he is saying that cose he is going to sneek off to tehran later and giving me the bullshit in advance my friend said....maybe we will need to stay at the base arghhh
There really is no reason why they would have to do that there only going to be told where they will work. 2 + 2 doesnt equal 4 in my eyes. What is worse is as soon as he realised I was panicking he wanted to run said I wasnt to stress him it might not happen (staying over) said forget bout it.
How can I, now I have to sit here and wait till I get contact and if i don't I need to be feeling scared and worried and sick. :( :(
I FEEL SHITTY
My hubby is iranian living in iran and he is in the military he just got out of bootcamp (national service) so he isn't out his country. Before that he worked in another city (tehran) away from home. He worked with his friend (male) in an office which shared the building with other offices (where girls work). Nearer the end of his time there one of the girls started working with them in this tiny office lol. Anyway i have it in my head that he is/was seeing her.......
NOW he is back in his home city and working for the military, I told him I feel uncomfy at the thought of him going back to virit because I am so insecure. TODAY he has to go to base to find out where he will be stationed for the remaining months (I PRAY not back in Tehran). He heard it should be his home city which makes me feel better.
So he is todays problem.....his friend (today) text him today asking him when he is going back to tehran, okay i can cope with that, in the same convo he told me his other friend (male) who he is going to base with today told him they might need to stay there overnight, I can cope with that too...........
BUT what I CANT cope with is the thoughts running through my mind that he is saying that cose he is going to sneek off to tehran later and giving me the bullshit in advance my friend said....maybe we will need to stay at the base arghhh
There really is no reason why they would have to do that there only going to be told where they will work. 2 + 2 doesnt equal 4 in my eyes. What is worse is as soon as he realised I was panicking he wanted to run said I wasnt to stress him it might not happen (staying over) said forget bout it.
How can I, now I have to sit here and wait till I get contact and if i don't I need to be feeling scared and worried and sick. :( :(
I FEEL SHITTY
Like u said its discreet....... how his friend would know in advance fathoms me ......and in the same convo he said he got a text from his friend in tehran (the place i am worried he went too) saying when u coming to tehran
i even phoned his friend there to ask if m was with him or in tehran he said no but even if he was its not like he would tell me