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Why men cheat?

yosem
yosem
Many of us here have been trying to give an answer to this question. I found an article that somewhat explains it.

Here is the link

http://winthemarket.com/datingtip/why-men-cheat/

I hope it brings some answers. Fell free to write your comments.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You go Melissa! I TOTALLY AGREE!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
My H really likes to have his ego stroked! The 5 love languages book is an excellent book and ironically we have since found out that his primary "love language" is words of affirmation, well the whore was perfectly willing to spend all sorts of time feeding his ego, saying horrible things about me to him and just generally tearing little holes in our relationship bit by bit, I think a lot of it has to do with ego, weak points, whether they are in a relationship at a certain time, or a result of past relationships or examples from childhood, whatever, probably many people are liable to make or maybe be tempted to make a mistake, no one is perfect. The Love Languages Book was introduced to us by our couples therapist and has been a great addition to our attempts at re-learning how to communicate, it is a great book!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I went back and read this article too, well I skimmed over it.

I'm a female and I was the cheater in my marriage.

I will say that the article makes sense but it still didn't have my reasons on there for cheating. I don't have anything or anyone to blame my cheating on. I did it because I was a selfish b*tch at the time. Thats my only real, true excuse for my stupid, unacceptable, immoral behavior.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes there are lots of women that cheat and hide it very well.My wife did, ha ha // well I knew what was going on.It still makes me feel bitter about the last year we were married.Sorry but I have to say it F***kin bad person for doing that...Thanks for letting my steam out for 1 sec..