Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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only2bestrong 04/13/2011

When someone cheats and ruins a good relationship to they ever regret it or realize they screwed up and that they lost something good?

deleted_user 04/15/2011

and I do realize that he could have just as easily chosen to leave.. or make me leave... thank God every day that he chose me! And US!

deleted_user 04/15/2011

I believe my W is truly sorry. She tells me every day, which does inspire me a little. I have learned however, that I cannot tell when she is lying. Three months after dday I got a big dose of trickle truth. She was still talking to the OM. Now she says -AGAIN- she has removed him from her life. of course part of me believes her. But, this is exactly what she said last time. i think it will take a while to get the trust back.
I have seen the pain she is in from the guilt and I do feel for her. I believe it is real. I guess we will both suffer together and hopefully overcome it all one day.

deleted_user 04/15/2011

I agree it depends on the person.

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