Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
just been thinking. What keeps us (the cheated upon) holding on to that keeps us stuck. Being the marriage police is a miserable existence but we hang on even when people who supposedly love us have done horrible things to us, betrayed us, hurt us in ways we would not wish upon our worst enemy. Why? My ex seems sincere but the truth is I will maybe never again feel secure with him. Is that any way to live and why do I lack the self respect to say "f it, I don't care if you say you changed, you've done enough to me that it doesn't matter!" I guess I. Feeling introspective and was wondering how others felt about why we stay when most people would not only have left by now but they would have left a person shaped hole in the wall when they bolted?
A friend passed this quote on to me the other day "ever loved someone so much you would do anything for them? Yeah well, make that someone yourself and do whatever the hell you want"
Life is way too short to be with someone who is so entangled into whatever sick shit he's doing that he could careless about how you feel about it. Or how it is affecting you mentally spiritually and physically. My advice to you my friend, is to try to be the best YOU you can be, for you not anyone else.