SHOCKED at first. Then laughed my butt off, because he did 3 nasty women. EVERYONE laughed their butts off. What was so funny is he would always slam someone if they were dating them or if we were out and he saw someone with a women, A WOMEN THAT LOOKED LIKE WHAT HE F*&Ked.
Did make me feel better that my husband wasn't burning me and destroying the family with some one that was better looking then me.
Sometimes I question if I'm madder at him for the affairs or for the ugly women he risked it all for, and believe me it was pretty damn close to him losing it all!!!

Oh, I ment to add. He claims these UGLY women had been easy targets and easy to get to pull their pants down for a married. All 3 knew he was married from the get-go. These type of women have no self esteem or very low at most. Losers in life and more so in LOVE...

Hmmmm, this is a great question. I have to say that I knew the OW that my Ex was involved with and I'll tell you one thing...

Hands down, she's very pretty.

Are you shocked?

She is. I'll say it. It's alright. She is prettier than me. Very perfect all the time. Perfect appearance all the time -- perfect makeup, perfect clothes, perfect home (it looks like something out of a magazine and I could never really believe that people lived there - don't her kids have a pile of shoes anywhere?). she was just perfect. Still is.

Everyone who meets her? They say she's crazy. My daughter (23) tells me she's is nuts. (She's made more of an attempt to see her than my other two kids.) My son (20) says she is a barbie doll. My daughter (17) says she is fake -- there is nothing real about her. This woman -- all of our old friends and my EX's family can't stand her - yes, she looks good, but she is obsessively crazy.

I am sure she would never dream of throwing on an old t-shirt and a grubby pair of jeans to do the lawn work. She would never let those dishes stand in the sink to play a round of basketball with her son. (those dishes will always be there)

Yup, she is prettier than me and she flaunts skin whereever she goes -- she is known for showing her boob implants and newly acquired cleavage to everyone -- while I tell my girls that there is nothing wrong with presenting yourself respectfully. I tell them that they are more that a set of boobs...

I ran into someone and they said they tried to have a conversation with her and her IQ of 80 was just making it darned impossible. (I go to school evenings and maintain a 3.9 grade point average). You can see that we are like polar opposites, can't you?

She looks good. But that is all she's got.

Pretty is as pretty does.....well if she cheats with a married man...no matter what she looks like in the mirror....she is as ugly as the sin she is committing...I don't think God thinks she is so pretty!

She is plain and homely and I was absolutely surprised that he was even attracted to her. Actually, when he first met her she annoyed him and there was no attraction at all.

Yes, it sucks to for him to have had an affair and sucks even more that it was with someone less attractive than me. Not that I am a knockout or anything, but I clean up ok.

Tearful-my H and his friends refer to women like the ones you are talking about as "Dirty Legs". You know you can score with them, but you don't want to admit you did.

Ive seen several of them via the wonderful world wide web. he was stupid enough to join a dating site and a swinger site too...and I saw all the pics and messages of the whores he was fucking WHILE we were married. Losers.... and yes..ugly INSIDE AND OUT! He had a 6 week affair while away at work...shes no prize and knew very well he was married. Then we have the video game whores whom he was whacking off on webcam with. can you say LOSERS? Were talking about 30 and 40 yr old women who are sending naked pics to married men through their VIDEO GAME they play all day. Video game?..seriously at that age? Pathetic. I cant wait til this divorce is over and i can delete it all.

Hey, how's that song go???
THEY ALL GET PRETTIER AT CLOSING TIME!

Well, she is attractive in a way, in a round face chipmunk kind of way. Bodywise we are complete opposites. I am muscular and curvy with a good size rack (34D LOL!!) she is short, petite and with virutally no rack (32A?) No curves on her at all, built more like a little boy than a woman. I laugh because my XH used to say all the time he couldn't understand how any man would want to sleep with a woman who wasn't built like a real woman. He used to say he pitied his friend (OW was his friend's wife) with having so little to play with in the bedroom. So he traded in the curvy women for the boy woman.
It is fine with me now. I laugh at all the lies he must be telling her now, or just all the lies. I look at it this way, he was either lying to me for 13 years or he is lying now, either way he is a liar and you can't beleive a single thing that comes out of his mouth ever.
As for her, she is a piece of work. Always has to be the center of attention. Always (pathetically) has to fit in with the young kids. Aimlessly and desparately trying to hold on to her youth, which is slipping away quicker than she thinks. The tanning and drinking won't be kind after she hits 40 and she can't escape it.
Me, I am a happy 44 years old. Not ashamed of my age or my looks. I earned my way here and I am in the best place emotionally and physically I have ever been.
Yes, his taste in women has definately hit bottom and at some point it will catch up to him. I actually think it has but for him it is easier to avoid and replace than to actually deal with anything.
He can do what he wants and on the odd occassion when I think of them together sexually I laugh my ass off. It really is quite funny to think about!

My h's whore is pretty enough. But looks come and go. What's in side should be the bigger picture. The whore was a serial cheater on her husband. He smarted, up and divorced the whore. The whore works in a local hospital and is a patient predator. My weak h was one of many conquest's for the whore. It was all a game to her, and h fell for it hook line and sinker.

She may look good on the outside-but, she is a cesspool on the inside.

Prayers for us ALL!

My H's OW was a total white trash skank. Camaro loving, hair gelling, fake tanning, clit piercing, home wrecking, whore of a skank. She can't even form a coherent sentence. My H is an intellectual person and so am I (beauty & brains!), so I was mostly disturbed by his attraction to such an idiot, not to mention the 1987 skankiness that she oozed.

She has nothing on me. I am sexy and classy and confident. I am glad she is hideous, it would have been much harder for me to overcome if she was gorgeous.

I'm not a woman but in my case I saw pictures of the other man and have to say "WTF" in a major way, especially since I have recently lost 40+ pounds and have been working out and he weighs around 90-95 pounds more than I do. I know looks aren't everything and I'm not trying to say I am Brad Pitt or anything, but it was quite a shock to find out that the OM in my case wasn't exactly what I think most women would consider a "stud".

I have to agree with jwhystle's reply. The OW in my case are not unattractive, but knowing what they have done, any beauty they may have lies only on the surfice.

Yeah, she was not very attractive and even odder, not his type! Wears tons of make-up, has short hair, which she teases and has to use lots of hair spray to keep the shape! So I would have to say, that he was just using her for sex!

Hello to all here
Having read all of the replies here, I have to agree that a woman who betrays another woman by having an affair with her H is ugly through and through.
I never knew who my H's affair was with or what she looked like but she sure as hell wasn't as good looking as me, in any way, shape or form.
I had and still have a great figure and face;I'd give her a run for her money whoever she is/was.
I was class, still am and she was a dog to do what she did. I can but imagine what she's like today in every way, cheap and trashy.
Regards
A

In my case looks were not the issue. I was going for the easy lay with no real work involved. So yes they are all on the lower side of the number scale. They did not have the brainpower either.
All of them are total opposites of my wife and I am thankful for that, in a way. Then when I look at my wife they do not come into mind. The only thing I have to deal with is seeing what I may lose and what I have done.