Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My wife's behavior has become increasingly suspicious over the span of a few weeks - textbook affair indicators; when I asked her she denies it. Acts resentful to me which I don't understand at all, won't talk about whatever is wrong but agreed to see a counselor since she acknowledges she's "going through something" now. Says she feels nothing towards me and the children anymore.
My wife has never displayed narcissistic behaviour, never been selfish; this is so unlike her.
I am horrified when I think of my children losing out on what was a perfect, whole, homelife. I will have failed them since all I've ever wanted was to be the ultimate "family man".
I am physcially ill to my stomach almost everyday since this began; the anxiety feels like it's literally killing me. Can't sleep well. I need to pull it together. I have been through serious stuff and I'm normally pretty damn stoic but this is hurting me to my soul.
I just don't know what to do. Hire a PI? If worst-case-scenario is true, how do I deal with the shame? How do I spare my children the pain of a broken family?
I'm absolutely sure mine is cheating he's done it before and there's all the signs there.
He vanishes every week used to be just the weekends now it's longer because he lost his job and he's an alcoholic.
I know I don't deserve this I do everything for him and it doesn't matter.
I am going to go to a therapist I cry a lot I get sick and I throw up more get stomach problems every time he's gone.
I'm so tense I could scream all the time.
I know the therapist is just going to tell me I deserve better and to leave him or kick him out and I truly should but honestly I still love the jerk and I'm on social security can't really afford to live by myself on that income and I have medical issues where I can't stand up or walk for too long so I'm pretty much stuck.
You on the other hand at least she said she will go to a therapist with you or counseling that's a start if you can get her to do it.
But everything you said I'm so sorry but it looks like she's cheating especially with the s&M night gowns.
I will think about you and hope that everything gets better one way or another for you because you deserve it.