Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I have been a member here (off and on) for many years. I have been guided by many of the people on this forum through an awful betrayal and a very long divorce. I am now on the other side of this event, scarred, battered but living. Here's where I need your help. I discovered yesterday, in a Genealogy Forum online, that the woman that my husband had the affair with, and is now living with, is cheating on him. I'm contemplating setting up a bogus email account with no connection to myself and emailing him the link to this juicy news. Why? Because I want him to feel the grief and fear and embarrassment and anger that they dished out to me.
So... do I do it?
Sandy
So... do I do it?
Sandy
Too torn on this one to give you advice.
They say that the true sign of moving forward and moving on, is if you have the opportunity to take revenge and pass on it, and don't even need to touch it, that means you are well past it and moved on.
Nice sentiment and all, isn't it?
One side of me would love to tell you to take the info and rip it to him. Another side says, 'hell, he'll find out eventually, because the truth always comes out. Let God shed a little light on your Ex. Let it come but not by your hand.'
Soooo, still torn here.
Would I do it if it were my Ex and Spammy? Truthfully, nope. I wouldn't put myself on thier scene ever again.
L~