Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Hi - I just found out that my husband (25 years) is still seeing his affair partner, and D-day was over 2 years ago. Every time he ends the affair (which has happened many times) he keeps going back to her. Every time, I take him back.
This time, I'm pretty sure I'm finally done. I say that because despite it all, I still love the jerk and want to stay married. But he clearly can't shake her, so I have no choice at this point. He doesn't know that I know he's still cheating. I want to start preparing for the separation/divorce now.
I would really appreciate any advise on what to expect and what I should do to prepare?
Get some help to find and love yourself you don't need him and deserve better wayyyy better...good luck!!
I backed off (in a 180 way) because I’m not quite ready to blow it all up (our lives, kids lives, etc) and I think he is getting the message. I see signs of him trying to end it with her. And since we’ve been through this dance many times before, I know what to look for... He doesn’t seem to realize his face is an opened book.
I’ve decided to work very hard on me, getting my life in order, and my kids - and give him space to work out his issues. He’s not a bad guy. He’s actually a pretty good guy who’s made a huge messy mistake and is dealing with it horribly. I think he’s so caught up in his drama that he still can’t think clearly.
I can do this for a while. Changing my perspective helped A LOT.