Fortunantly no email is untraceable. if you send that email to your tech group, they will be able to trace it. it could be a phishing hack, or it could be a valid user.

Call it and report harassing email. They can find it.

I think you might want to approach this from a different angle.

Yes, this person might be trying to hurt you. OR, just maybe, they are
trying to alert you.

If you can, see if you can find out who sent it. That might help.

Is your wife still cheating? My H was. It was all a game of
"catch me if you can" with him.

I know for me, I had to get over the pain in order to think clearly. The pain clouds our objectivity. We just want to feel safe, secure, and loved like we thought we were. Love yourself and get down to the truth.

I would play along. Maybe send back "Not that I know of. Do you have info I need to know about?"

Did you mean she had 8 different APS?

It could be she is still cheating or that someone is just nasty because she indirectly hurt them. But I doubt that another betrayed spouse would do that at all.

How is your reconciliation going?

I would definitely find out who it is, then play along like you don't know and see if you can catch the person in a lie. That will tell you a lot.

It could be nothing or something. What do you want to do with the information. If it's just a past scorned AP or one of their spouses just trying to alert you of an affair you already knew about than yes it is bothersome to bring it back up now. But if it is new activity that jeopardizes your reconciliation if that is infact what you are moving toward than I would want to know. I would play dumb and try to get information so you can at least confront your spouse. If you are in the process of divorce, who cares....delete it and move on. But what do you think you want to do with this email?

It appears to be from another BS.

As you know, it can take a LONG time to recover. If this is the case, she wants your wife to suffer though you.