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Ran into the OW's sister

Blueberrie02
Blueberrie02
Ran into the OW's sister at the gas station. We had it out with words until she started to flip my kids off and tell me " F*** you!" That's when I lost it. After my poor kids didn't know what was going on and were hurt because they had considered her their aunt. My son even said, "that was not cool mom. you guys need to hug and say sorry."
Can't believe how EVIL people can be. What should I do now? She actually sit at my car also. SO NASTY!
pinkpony66
pinkpony66
Agree with your child that it was not good. Let them know you should have walked away as soon as you felt it was negative. Explain thatcsomecrelationships may not be fixed.

Tell your kids The grown up thing to do is not hate the person but pray for them and accept that you cannot be friends (even if you want to rip her tongue out and then shove it back down her throat and choke her with it)

While your kids will hopefully learn to accept how things are, you can remember that pigs like her don't deserve all of your energy. Save it for better things.
Blueberrie02
Blueberrie02
And I meant to say she was telling my kids "F*** You"
Blueberrie02
Blueberrie02
And spit at my car
LyraAryn
LyraAryn
Unbelievable.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Tell your kids you did behave badly. You did sink down to her level and that was a mistake. Always hold your head high and behave appropriately so you do not have to explain your actions, ever. View it as a lesson learned. As for the bitch. If you see her again, glare at her, say nothing and leave no matter where you are. Let her look like the idiot she is. But overall, just ignore her. Take care of yourself.
thralkr
thralkr
I agree, she looks like the idiot if you ignore her and don't respond when you see her. It will show your kids that you are in charge of you and no one can disrupt their sense of security. She isn't worth your energy, so save your energy for your kids and yourself.