Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I look at it like this
Using one of my therapists phrases
Perception is reality
So none of us ever experience true objective reality
By our thoughts and emotions
We experience our own reality
And you can control your thoughts and emotions ( i know this now after a TON of very intensive therapy)
So you can control your perceptions
So you can create the reality you need at any given time
So that's what I am trying to do
Create a reality that focuses on me healing
quite a quantum field approach to healing....manifesting...observer changing the outcome
i know outcomes may vary.... probabilities being what they are point to one outcome being the most probable than another...so even through i could ruminate about negative outcomes, i will choose to focus on positive outcomes, and still know , that its simply my perception of reality that i am experiencing, not true objective reality...but, i now know, i can choose my reality...so i shall choose a reality that allows me the most potential for healing
Using one of my therapists phrases
Perception is reality
So none of us ever experience true objective reality
By our thoughts and emotions
We experience our own reality
And you can control your thoughts and emotions ( i know this now after a TON of very intensive therapy)
So you can control your perceptions
So you can create the reality you need at any given time
So that's what I am trying to do
Create a reality that focuses on me healing
quite a quantum field approach to healing....manifesting...observer changing the outcome
i know outcomes may vary.... probabilities being what they are point to one outcome being the most probable than another...so even through i could ruminate about negative outcomes, i will choose to focus on positive outcomes, and still know , that its simply my perception of reality that i am experiencing, not true objective reality...but, i now know, i can choose my reality...so i shall choose a reality that allows me the most potential for healing
when one perceives that reality revolves around the one perceiving
hence cheaters can perceive that they are justified
wack jobs like a hitler can perceive that their delusions are not delusional
what does that have to with your healing?
evrything
one one hand change your perspective .... instead of "what she did to you..... what did you do to her, did you honor your vows?
if so, why
if so, when we you tested and still choose to honor?
if so, maybe you were never tested, not because you weren't but because you only considered the "right" path
i wish you well,
i am not a believer in perspective being reality, if so that would mean that i believe in situational morality
reality / truth is, it makes sense to change one's vantage point from which to view reality / truth,