I am unsure of what to do, I joined just recently and I am working through alot of this and it seems to be going great we have been open and honest about alot of things and he has begun to talk about his feelings and other things, but one thing that I never seem to get an answer on, is this co worker of his, I will call her 294 since that is the first three digits of her cell , and i Dont know her name , he won't tell me her name and she wont, and i have talked to her this was back in Feb, I wasnt rude seh was not rude she assured me that they were just friends, and he told me she didnit want anything to do with her and that he did hit on her back in December , well, alot has happened since then I had kicked him out and assumed it was over , over anohter incidnent, it's in my journal, but I have several unasnwered questions concerning this co worker , should I just drop it and let it go, since we are working it out ,I may never know the truth ,and he really seems to be trying and made a comment to his sister wehn I asked him to leave that he really wanted to work it out and once I got this new job he wanted to get out of the place he worked and get a different job, I don't know ,that's the only thing holding us back I Have no closure when it comes to 294, I mean if there was soemt ing going on and I confronted her seems like she would of told me right ? the cat was out of the bag and I told him to get out, I mean they had thier chance, I don't know, grrrrr.