Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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rbsingle1959 12/15/2011

Ok all of you out there. We are coming to a close. 2011 is finally ending. Many of us are sad because it was in this year that we lost our relationships, children, jobs, whatever the case may be. Some of us are so happy we are entering 2012 because it means old habits and old relationships left behind and the beginning of a new life and new year in every sense of the word.

WHAT WILL BE YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTION FOR 2012?

P.S
BY THE WAY; HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO EVERYONE

deleted_user 12/15/2011

Find the OW, hold her down, cut off all her blonde hair, shave her eyebrows, tattoo whore on her forehead.......................Then I will be a better person, take care of myself, eat better, excercise, and live for me for a change.

Lstecker 12/15/2011

Ha Mrs!!!! Good one!

Over all, life is good here. My Man is amazing. Kids are well. Grand kids are well. Just this nagging back issue that needs another surgery, sooooo....I resolve to go under the knife again. Get myself healed and finish up that last class, and keep on going!

I really have no resolutions about my EX or Spammy. I think 2011 is the year that I finally hit the big 'whatever.' (I would shrug my shoulder, but OUCH!)

Happy Holidays All! L~

deleted_user 12/15/2011

To work on my anger towards the OW and my stbx

To continue what I have started and keep moving forward, rising above the shit with my head held high

To live within a budget (that's the toughest one!)

directingpond 12/15/2011

To finish up my last classes and get my own classroom this year! I've decided if I don't get a full gig teaching, I'm going back to being a lab rat. Subbing (and it's low pay) is for the birds! I am going to continue maintaining boundaries- I've had to use them a few times recently and may seem like a bitch, but I've reached that whatever point too lol

Andddddd, I'm going back to dating again. I had started to this summer but kind of put it on the backburner while working, going full time to college, and raising 4 kiddos alone.

deleted_user 12/16/2011

This year is about ME. I have decided that I am going to find at least 2 new hobbies for myself this year, so that I'm not so bored and lonely. I'm taking a wine class at the local community college, and bought a small plot in the community garden, both as ways to hopefully reach out and meet some new people.

I need to go to the gym more often in 2012. No use carrying around all this excess divorce and post-divorce weight I have piled on.

Also, I have decided to take an anti-stress bath at least once a week. I highly recommend them. Awesome me time!

deleted_user 12/16/2011

My resolutions include:
A job my number one and also my only Xmas present request.
To stop obsessing about the OW and the affair. That seems to be starting to happen. I am realizing how pitiful she was standing around waiting for a married man to leave his family. And then when given the chance, he did not choose her.
To have the strength to make the right decision for me and my children regarding my H and whether to give him another chance.
To continue with my exercise. Lost 25 pounds so far walking off my stress over all this drama.

rbsingle1959 12/19/2011

Good for all of you. I seriously hope you can reach all your goals for 2012. I need to stop obsessing about the OW my ex left me for after 22 yrs of marriage. I need to stop obsessing about whether or not he is happy with her or not and take care of me. I am dating a wonderful man who also has been hurt. I need to be there for him like he has been for me and move forward. Better days will come. I need to believe this

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