So, my husband dated a girl for only 6 months, & then they broke up 8 or 9 years ago (long before me & him were married). This girl contacted him a year & a half ago, asking my husband to have dinner with her. I was invited, too, but i had a prior commitment, & couldn't go. He went & had dinner with her, & me & him were texting each other throughout the evening, & we even talked to each other on the phone a couple of times. He told me that it was just a friendly, & platonic dinner, & that nothing happened. I even knew what restaurant they were at. The next day, i tried to friend the girl on facebook, because i thought that maybe she would want to be friends with me as well. She never accepted my friend request, & she ended up blocking my husband on facebook, too. My husband & I thought that was a little strange, but didn't dwell on it too much, & life went on. 3 months ago, this ex gf texted my husband out of the blue, just to see what he was up to, & how he was doing. I asked if she could send a pic of herself to me, because i was curious as to what she looked like. She never responded to me. I sent her a heartfelt & meaningful message on messenger, & told her that i didn't mind that she wanted to still be friends with my husband, but i thought that the friendship should be within the boundaries of our marriage, & that she should be respectful of that, & the friendship should be out in the open, & not behind my back. I even asked her if me & her could be friends as well. She blocked me after i sent it to her. My husband then sent her a letter, & told her how much that he loves his wife, was hoping that we could all be friends, & asked her why she blocked me. She responded back to him by saying that she never read my message that i sent her, she truly isn't mad at me, & asked him to apologize to me on her behalf. She then somewhat scolded my husband, & told him that he needs to focus on his marriage right now, & treat me like the love of his life that he claims that i am. She also said that she doesn't see where it's necessary for me to know what she looks like, isn't sure if a friendship is plausible with me, or my husband right now, said that maybe we could all be friends sometime in the future, & is concerned about where her comfort level is with ever meeting me, let alone being friends with me. Then, she told my husband that she will most likely block him on facebook again, but not as a personal attack, & that she doesn't want all of the drama in her life right now. I have tried to reach out to this girl, but it seems like she never completely got over breaking up with my husband, & keeps coming in & out of his life to see if he's available to her or not, & when she sees that he's not available, she takes off, & blocks everyone. I'm convinced that she'll wait a few months, or a few years, & then contact him again out of the blue, & the entire thing will start all over again. I've told my husband that he needs to put a stop to it, & tell her that if she wants to be friends with him, then she needs to accept me, & our marriage, & if she can't do that, then she needs to be completely & permanently cut out of our lives.