Yup!!!! Thats what happen. My husband was paying for sleezy hotel rooms, having sex with the OW all the while she was planning her wedding to another man. Wow, as Charlie Sheen would say "WINNING" - yeah not. I can not freaking beleive that my husband had an affair with a woman knowing darn right well she was getting married to another man. What was he freaking thinking about? Well, she was only married for 4 1/2 months, kicked her husband out and three days later moved mine in. Should I say it again "Winning" - - not. My husband constantly verbally and emotionally abused me, accusing me of having sex with anyone and everyone. Including, my 16 year old step son (his son from his first marriage) and also my girlfriend who i was carpooling with to save gas money. UGH !!!! Really !!!!! I was totally faithful in everyway. He traded me for "that" once again "Winning" - - not. He has since moved the OW into my home with her three kids after kicking me out by physically threatening me. She quit her job and he is now supporting not only her, but her 13, 20 and 21 year old boys. None of them work. This is going to be fun watching how this unfolds. Sad thing is, I really loved my house. It wasn't a home anymore, but it was my house that eventually had he just left when the affair started and allowed me to stay there, I could have turned into my forever home. Now I'm sitting in a small bungalow and dreaming of my new future home. Knowing his life is crumbling all around him. Wait til I finally get him in court for child support. Boy, is he gonna flip. Wait Wait Wait here I go again "Winning" - - not. Honestly, I do not like Charlie Sheen, but in this case. I think his so popular catch phrase is appropriate. LOL. Thanks for allowing me to rant. Try to have a great day. I intend to.