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Lying on their sons souls

onyx11
onyx11
So this should give you a taste of what the FOG looks like - when my STBX was deep in her FOG nonsense - I asked her if she was talking to this AP - she said no - it was one of her GF - she said I swear on my "sons" lives - placed her hand on their head while my son (4 and 7) was sleeping and said - "no" I swear on his soul - as well as the bible -

Next day she says she was "lying". Who in their right mind swears on their sons souls? That is how crazy this stuff is.

To this day that makes me so sick.
Vinoglass
Vinoglass
My husband did the same thing... Swore on our kids lives. Shame on him or anyone else who does that. They have no morals, limits, and conscience!
lebe
lebe
My ex recently swore a whole bunch of lies supporting his version of the truth on our son's life. I had proof that he was lying before he tried to lie to me.I guess he was just desperate to reel me back in like a fish. I like to think I'm smarter than that.

People lie when the are desperate to manipulate. If you ask them to swear on their own soul, most of them will do it. If they don't its obvious they are lying....if the person is not superstitious (believing they are really putting a soul in jeapordy) I guess it's easy for most to lie.
lovemarriage
lovemarriage
My H did the same thing. Shortly after receiving the anonymous email I specifically asked him if he thought it was his old co-worker (I had suspected but never had solid proof) and he swore on our childs life it was not!
onyx11
onyx11
brendrena said it correctly - They have no morals, limits, and conscience

my ex is now at least taking my boys to church - she is catholic and infideilty is a mortal sin - I even underlined it in the bible when she started going through her "motions" she enjoyed me being upset and she tried to keep me down but i like to think of myself as a warrior - not that we all aren't and I truely believe that.

but there is absolute no excuse for liying on your kids souls - zero - it goes against every fiber of ones being and i would think double so with a women who carried their children.

its just completely insaine. - i have no other words for it then that. i am truely sorry for anyone else who had to hear those words as well.