Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Nothing specific... but my day has been weird.. I got tons of personal shit going on and I was at home today. ( it is friggin cold here...- 29 ) and so unless there is specific work ( as I am self employed) i was not leaving home.
but my emotions were all over the map...from okay to tears to resentment to okay again...
Will we ever be able to function normally.. it has almost been two months and my exbf is f*cking everything in a skirt and still never spoke to me when I found him chearing...s till so pissed about that....did I mean nothing to him? my only conclusion is yes.. I meant nothing to him..the joke was on me...
but my emotions were all over the map...from okay to tears to resentment to okay again...
Will we ever be able to function normally.. it has almost been two months and my exbf is f*cking everything in a skirt and still never spoke to me when I found him chearing...s till so pissed about that....did I mean nothing to him? my only conclusion is yes.. I meant nothing to him..the joke was on me...
You mean a lot to many people. Your feeling about your BF is because you still care about him. Unless and until you can leave that emotional state, you will feel hurt all the time.
The joke is not on you. You did not cheat even you could have, right? The joke is on him. He is one subject himself to unfaithful, immoral, sleazy deeds.
So, your bf was a clown. You found out about it. He likes to mess with women and keep many balls up in the air, keeping his options open. Just shows what he lost.
You really can't kick yourself for 'not meaning anything to him.' It sounds like not much means much to this guy. He sounds like some hollow shell. Can you imagine trying to build a life with someone like that? It would have all been so superficial and fake.
Honey, go for 'real.' 'Real' is so much better than window dressing.
It's not a reflection on you. This is a huge reflection on him...
Take care of you now...L~