Yes, it means he is attracted to her.
You aren't paranoid.
Also, you need to let him know how this relationship with the other woman makes you feel.
If she is giving him money and gifts, there is something else going on there, just my opinion of course.
What would he think if you had a male friend that gave you money and gifts?
Maybe that would be a good question to ask him.

why is he talking to this ow? i think you have every right to be paranoid. as a survivor of a cheating bf, i've learned that there is also emotional infidelity as well. he started getting very friendly with our female neighbor friend.

uhm from what I remember he is over protective with you...but its okay for him to have a friend?isn't this the same guy that didn't like you to dress a certain way? why would a friend buy someone a PS3? Weird well who knows what else is going on we are women that have been betrayed we will tell you the truth. I'm pretty sure if you see the signs that aren't right your feelings are correct. I hope you don't wait until it becomes a big drama since you are in school and all. Please try to stay focused on your future...HUGS!I asked my Husband in his face if he slept with someone else and he denied it in my face so who couldn't deny it over the phone or in a letter? This was my H I had two baby girls from him....so how much more easy is it for a boyfriend?

Can you say inappropriate Relationship?

He is way over the line. They are not friends. I have male friends and I am not out buying them PS3!! or giving them money. He's attracted to her, You are not worried for nothing.

I don't want to sound mean and I'm not downing you...but why do you ALLOW your man to do these types of things...such as talking to a woman other than you or his family on the phone. I mean where do you think that would eventually lead to? It's ok to have friends of the opposite sex, but I'm sorry no man nor woman hangs on the phone with their "FRIEND" constantly..maybe 10 minutes and not everyday either. Then she went out and spent over $200 on a gift...COME ON. Even if he's npt dealing with her on that level yet...something lies behind that...ONLY BEST FRIENDS would even consider spending that type of money on a gift. and even then most don't (that's not chump change). You need to be careful honey, cause that's how things get started...they inch and inch and inch to see what it is they can get away with. You accepted that so let's see what heppens next. I wouldn't trust either one and lastly. This is how affairs get started, she's confiding in him about her "AWFUL" boyfriend to your man..leaning on his shoulder..don't be surprised when you catch them and the story goes...we didn't intend for this to happen...we were just friends in the beginning. Some things are picture clear and alot of women act as if they don't see it. Would he allow you to have a male that you talk to daily that buys you nice EXPENSIVE gifts on your B-Day? Think about it....I highly doubt it.

Give him an ultimatum, her or you. Trust your instincts.

All of these things yall have said to do i've done. His whole focus is on money right now...... he is talking to her for the money!! She has alot of it! The ps3 was almost $500 i think, she takes him out to eat sometimes, she gave him 50$ one day just b/c he asked for it. He is not doing so well financially right now so he looks at this as free money. But then again he says she is nice and if someone would do those kinds of things then that means they care. And i have told him that he knows he wouldnt be okay w/ it if I was to do exactly what he was doing and he said if I was getting money he wouldnt care. And today he offered to let me look at his messages in his phone but i didnt have time because I had class.... but later on that same day i told him i was gonna look in his phone and he wouldnt let me because he said i was gonna bitch about what was in there from that girl. But if its stuff that I already know about why should it matter, he says i am worried about the wrong stuff, and that he is not worried about having sex w/ this girl and is focused on more important things. There is something in there that he doesnt want me to see... im not stupid...... well..... maybe i am because i dont know why i put myself through this. And if he wants to go through my phone i cant stop him. and when i want to talk to him about this kind of stuff he gets mad because he says he knows what he is doing and i dont need to worry about it.

Maybe he's ok with being 'for sale' and lying to himself too. I wouldn't be. Absolutely wrong situation. Sweetie, he is crossing the line - not okay. No way should they be talking at all. I don't consider myself bitter at all and my H and I are working on things - this is just wrong for him to do. You need to draw your own lines, have respect for yourself, believe in YOU honey and don't allow yourself to take this. Seriously - not okay! HUGS

Sounds to me like you already know what he is doing.... He is pimping himself out for money and gifts. Yup she is buying him plain and simple.He said he (knows what he is doing) so obviously he dosent mind being a manwhore. I agree with stayingalive ask him how he would like it if you got a "friend" sugar daddy?

I know if i told him to choose her or me he probably wouldnt choose me. :( Even though all the money i have spent on him adds up to like 200 ps3's!! I think he would choose her because he doesnt want it to look like im controlling him i guess. I have been w/ him for almost 3 yrs and it took along time to get to where we are now ( we used to argue ALOT) and then this bitch comes along and even though she has a man, but supposivly they dont get along and she is like his new best friend! He hates girl that i guess you would say are "hoes" but this HOE has a man but he never says anything bad about her. But what really makes me mad is about the phone. When he said do you wanna look at my phone.... then later on wouldnt let me look at it. And i know there werent anymore messages in there from when he told me i could b/c his phone isnt working right now. He said it to make me feel better and thought that since he said it i would trust there was nothing in there. Im so confused, i know what i should do but i just cant i dont know why. I kind of feel bad for him i guess thats why i let this go on... because he grew up really poor and pretty much raised himself... so money is always his main priority no matter how he has to get it. But i know that is no excuse for what he's doing

oh and i forgot to mention.... he sold the ps3 she bought for $400! So that way it is like free money..... thats why he wants to keep her around so he can do stuff like that.... but then again she's so nice and he would date her if he wasnt talkin to me!

You honestly don't need a boyfriend like that. A cheat, liar, AND user? Wow.

Yes, this is an inappropriate relationship. I would get out of it immediately. You're way too cute to stay with a guy who's treating you like that. He is attracted to her and her money and he may decide to have sex with her behind your back. Get out now!

Why on earth would you want such a loser for a bf? I just don't get it. You deserve so much more than what he contributes to your relationship (which looks to be about nothing). Drop him fast and go find a real man that will treat you with respect instead of being with a guy who is just a freeloader that uses women. Guys like that sicken me. Hope it works out for you.