Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
first a brief summary in case you dont know my tale
wife of 14 years, had several emotional affairs in october and november, she had gastric bypass surgery wednesday after thanksgiving and admitted the night before not only was she talking to other guys but they was phone sex and facetime sex, not sure what to ccall it anyhow,
she moved out, i live in our house, that we bought title to house is in both our names loan is in hers.
since then she has had several, other boyfriends, one died, that lived in another state, seh had an i dont know what with a guy in prison, not sure how that works either and dated my ex best friend who is an alcoholic.
i am in a financial struggle with everything, we have 2 kids, they stay with me 5 nights a week due to her working midnight, i now pay all the bills that we used to pay on two incomes on one, yes the utilities did come down but still,
so i barely get by with food and bills for kids, i barely eat leaving anything we have for kids, no we are not starving or anything, but its just not what anyone is used to. ok so now my question
based on your situation, how often do you have a setback and hate the cheating spouse all over again or worse.
today my brakes on my car statrted to make a noise, i need to get them checked, i am sure i need new brakes but its no where near being in my budget, and i find myself hating her for the situation i am in all over again.
wife of 14 years, had several emotional affairs in october and november, she had gastric bypass surgery wednesday after thanksgiving and admitted the night before not only was she talking to other guys but they was phone sex and facetime sex, not sure what to ccall it anyhow,
she moved out, i live in our house, that we bought title to house is in both our names loan is in hers.
since then she has had several, other boyfriends, one died, that lived in another state, seh had an i dont know what with a guy in prison, not sure how that works either and dated my ex best friend who is an alcoholic.
i am in a financial struggle with everything, we have 2 kids, they stay with me 5 nights a week due to her working midnight, i now pay all the bills that we used to pay on two incomes on one, yes the utilities did come down but still,
so i barely get by with food and bills for kids, i barely eat leaving anything we have for kids, no we are not starving or anything, but its just not what anyone is used to. ok so now my question
based on your situation, how often do you have a setback and hate the cheating spouse all over again or worse.
today my brakes on my car statrted to make a noise, i need to get them checked, i am sure i need new brakes but its no where near being in my budget, and i find myself hating her for the situation i am in all over again.
First things first, there are a LOT of things you're gonna have to do for yourself now. Replace your cable/satellite with netfix. Save money on electricity by removing some lightbulbs from fixtures. Just because your ceiling fan has a pace for 3 bulbs doesn't mean you absolutly have to have 3 bulbs in it. And, pick up a Haynes manual for your car and do the breaks yourself. It's not rocket surgery. Once you start budgeting and getting a handle on your expensises and becoming more self reliable then most of your anger will start to dissipate. In my case, I had a bunch of setbacks in the beginning. Now? Not so much. I no longer look at it like "If she were here like she was supposed to be then I woudn't be in this position". Thats negative talk thats bringing you down. I now look at things like a challenge. If something breaks or has to be taken care of then I look at it like "I can do this, aint nothing but a thing"
Oh, and I have 3 kids and 5 cats and none of us; is going hungry.
Xkmbie ohb I have cut all the bills to bare minimum its not so much the no more ey thing from her its the setback of damn that biatch lol. I just am tired of her being the cheating spouse and I am the one having to rob peter to pay paul. S