It's not you. FB is VERY dangerous.

Yeah did you see the news a week ago about a 21 year old girl getting into an argument with her son's father's sister over $20 and she got stabbed and died. I couldn't believe it at first, but I went to FB after I saw the news, typed in her name and her photo popped up. THAT HURT MY HEART SO BAD...I agree it is Dangerous and there are a-lot of e-bullies. And with that being said it only GIVES ME MORE AMMUNITION AGAINST MY EX AND WHY I WILL NEVER EVER SPEAK TO THAT IDIOT AGAIN...HE DIDN'T EVEN THINK TWICE ABOUT WHAT KIND OF ENVIRONMENT HE NOT ONLY PLACED ME IN, BUT HIS NEWBORN SON AS WELL. SORRY BASTARD!!

FB itself isn't evil. I've struggled with this thought process also.

My BIL calls it the devil. LOL

It's just like anything else---it's abusiable---so people will and do :(

I have a FB and I enjoy it but my H and I share it. He can go on it anytime and see everything. I have NOTHING to hide.

@ lovemarriage...you guys are the "exception", but I do agree. It's NOT the FB it's the fools who go there with no understanding of RESPECT, BOUNDARIES, INTEGRITY, ETC.

I think that in our society today we are all just "too available". Blackberry's, ipads,iphones, facebook, twittering and tweeting! If we use these things for what they are intended. No trouble at all. If we misuse them, then we are in trouble. I have facebook to catch up with family and friends, mostly who live far away. No secrets, no troubles.

Oooh, FB and I are not on good terms today!

What Alison said! There's too much social networking and not enough real life going on here. I grounded my son and took away his cell phone for a couple weeks. He had a new, really cute girlfriend that I liked so I told him 'use the house phone to call her'. They didn't know how to have an actual conversation - the budding romance just fell apart because 'he couldn't text'. How sad is that??!!

No, FB isn't the devil, but he lurks there waiting for the weak, those who lack moral character, and draws them in. Same with all the other networking, porn sites, Craigslist, etc. How many people do you think would have chosen not to cheat if it wasn't so 'easy' to hookup without ever even revealing your true identity?

It's just incredibly sad that our culture increasingly promotes infidelity. SAD.

I agree with alison. We are very available. It's not hard for people to sneak around. Most of us have smart phones where we can access our FB or other email accounts. Gone are the days when there was one email account per family.
I love my FB. I communicate with all my family out of the state. I hate my H FB. He won't delete it. I know that he used it to communicate with OW. I don't have any guy friends on my page, mostly family.
TV has me so turned off now too. So many of the shows that are on now have people that have had so many different partners. It makes it seem like its ok to change partners every week. I don't get it. Guess I'm in a mood today.

WHY ISN'T ANYONE HORRIFIED BY AIDS!!!? THAT"S THE SCARIEST THING..I MEAN PEOPLE ARE PASSING OUT THE SEX LIKE WOMEN CHANGE SHOES AND HANDBAGS!....

I don't know. Some people can control themselves and others can't. Facebook makes it so easy for bad things to happen. I assumed most facebook affairs were with people that you know. My W was involved with a guy she met playing a facebook game. He lived two states away, but they met halfway at his beach condo. I still can't believe anyone could be that naive. Thankfully he wasn't an axe murderer psycho or something. I was also shocked to learn after dday that he had two kids who had friended our kids. My W went on their facebook and did it. Our kids don't know these people, they just know him as some guy mom plays poker with onFB. Yeah I know it's kinda bizarre.
One thing that is certain-if facebok didn't exist it never would have happened..

I just found out yesterday that a friend of ours got involved with a total stranger she met on facebook. Unbelievable!
I don't get it. You text a total stanger for a while and then decide to hookup with them when you know NOTHING ABOUT THEM. What the hell is wrong with these people?

FB and Match.com were both tools used my my wife to cheat on me. I want to vomit every time I see those "First Date" commercials that Match has that say their site leads to more marriages than any other. I wonder, how many marriages have they helped destroy?

I agree with mommy. Facebook doesn't kill people, people do.

F*ckbook is the devil. My wife clearly says she would never have cheated, had she not found her 10th grade boyfriend on FB. She was completely anti-infidelity and wouldn't even see an Angelina Joli movie because she thinks Joli broke up Pitt & Aniston.

Well, she sees this 10th grade boyfriend and he looks all cleaned up, with a wife & kid and does't look like the asshole that he was 27 years ago. They communicate and create an intimacy along with stiring up those hurt emotions from 27 years ago. One thing leads to another........ Had she not seen him on FB, it would have remained on the shelf of forgotten memories. Reports are now suggesting that 1 of 5 divorces are sighting FB as a compelling reason for the split!

Let's be honest with eachother. I would bet there isn't a single person on this site, loyals or unloyals, who can admit NOT looking up an ex or an unrealized ex. Facebook is a dating site for married people that has become the norm and excepted way to live. It has become ok to look-up an ex and to flirt with them because both spouses are doing it and enjoying it. It's when one heads down the "slippery slope" that the shit hits the fan! If I was King (or God), I would make it illegal for married people to be on FB. It's like an internet swingers club!

Workingitout2010-you are dead on with that. I think married people should share all passwords. probably wouldn't matter though because they could still have secret accounts. And what about Ashley Madison. That's a big thing where I live, probably because of so many large cities nearby. It is a dedicated "dating" site for married people who want to hookup with other married people.