Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Hi Folks!
You may or may not know me, but my name is Jesse and I work here at DailyStrength. I'm writing to let you know that we're looking to add a Community Leader to the Infidelity Support Group -- so we'd like to know if you want to become one!
In case you're not already familiar with what Community Leaders do, they're vibrant members who volunteer to greet new folks to the group, offer positive and constructive advice in discussion posts, and help steer negative topics back on track (and occasionally close a clearly abusive discussion post, which is very rare in this group). You can learn more by clicking here:
http://www.dailystrength.org/content/view/2071495
If you have any questions or are interested in becoming a volunteer CL, please send me a private message with the subject heading of "CL for Infidelity". DS staff will then review the candidates.
To be considered for the role of a CL, we'd like to ask that you:
1. Be okay with having a profile privacy setting of either "Everybody" or "DS Members". That way new members can greet you back!
2. Have not received prior warnings from DS for violations of the Rules of the Road.
3. Have been an active member of the Infidelity support group for at least six months.
I'll leave this post up for a few days, and I might bump it up every once and a while so it stays on the main page.
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. :)
Jesse
You may or may not know me, but my name is Jesse and I work here at DailyStrength. I'm writing to let you know that we're looking to add a Community Leader to the Infidelity Support Group -- so we'd like to know if you want to become one!
In case you're not already familiar with what Community Leaders do, they're vibrant members who volunteer to greet new folks to the group, offer positive and constructive advice in discussion posts, and help steer negative topics back on track (and occasionally close a clearly abusive discussion post, which is very rare in this group). You can learn more by clicking here:
http://www.dailystrength.org/content/view/2071495
If you have any questions or are interested in becoming a volunteer CL, please send me a private message with the subject heading of "CL for Infidelity". DS staff will then review the candidates.
To be considered for the role of a CL, we'd like to ask that you:
1. Be okay with having a profile privacy setting of either "Everybody" or "DS Members". That way new members can greet you back!
2. Have not received prior warnings from DS for violations of the Rules of the Road.
3. Have been an active member of the Infidelity support group for at least six months.
I'll leave this post up for a few days, and I might bump it up every once and a while so it stays on the main page.
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. :)
Jesse
There was a member that had been here for a short time. Her h had cheated multiple times and with both sexes. With that scenario it is probably harder to understand the direct anger a BS would feel toward an OW that actually persued your spouse. She couldnt understand why we had so much anger toward them. No matter how much we tried to explain it. Even when we told her that it wasnt just the anger about the A but the things done after. Then she went on to even tell me I deserved to be as sick as I was or that it was somehow my fault I was having seizures. Well I let her have it with both barrells and I am not proud of it.
You know just from my experience in this room as well as CA which has monitors. What would be needed is a person that has really come a long way in this particular subject. Simply because we are discussing such a painful subject that has hurt us so badly and this area is open to people coming from all sides of the scenario. If the CS was a BS then it would be assumed the person was biased in some way toward the BS's issues and if it was a CS then it would be the same. That is a hurtle I dont know how they would be able to overcome on DS. I actually saw that issue come up in CA and had saw what i thought to be some biased acts.
How DS would be able to overcome that issue I have no clue. Otherwise, I actually wouldnt mind doing the job.