Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Found out my boyfriend has been sleeping with another girl. He found about a week ago the he has chlamydia! We had sex about 2 weeks before that. The girl he was with got tested and she says she doesnt have it ( so she says) but I have been with him for 3 yrs and NEVER cheated. So how could I have given it him? I do believe she was the only other girl. Anything suggestions????
OR you or he had it a long time.
Don't wait. And don't have relations with him until he is cleared of it.
It is possible to have contracted it a long time ago and not realize it.
Not likely, but possible.
But factor in that he that he was with someone else, gotta make you wonder about truthfulness.
i dont think he is telling the whole truth.
be careful and alert with him...and be thankful if it is just that and not something like aids that could happen just as fast. I heard just the other day that one in four young sexually active people had aids and did not know it...and that was why it was spreading.
then theres yet another person...he's lying. straight up.
First, dump him regardless of how your tests turn out. If negative, consider yourself very lucky and don't ever put yourself in that position again.
Second, next time around find someone that you connect with mentally, emotionally, spiritually, etc. Build a relationship based on those things. If you want a long-lasting relationship those take precedence over the physical relationship. Eventually the sex drive wanes so all you'll have left are those other things. If you don't like those other things about them where does that leave you?
Some look at chastity as an old-fashioned garment that makes no sense. God didn't tell us to refrain from intimacy until marriage to keep us from having fun. He did it because it creates genuine loving relationships that stand the test of time. It's the media that makes everyone think that if they're not having great sex then there's something wrong with their life. That's the message that's out there and it's a LIE!
prince
My cheater had three. I only knew about one then discovered the other two. He still lies even now. Serial cheaters are also pathological liers. They love showing you items like that peice of paper to "razzle dazzle" you.
You have no choice but to wait for these test results then deal with the disease if you have it. I'm sorry. From now on, you and I do not tolerate any men who ever lie about anything ok! If they lie they cheat, if they cheat they lie.
that is not a rare story....because too many women or men settle for a feeling rather than thinking of their future and their happiness long term....
when you are young...every single choice and decision you make will follow you or effect your future forever....none of them can be erased...so make choices that the consequences for you are good and guaranteed...not by chance or luck...we make our own chance...and you can not put destiny in the control of someone elses power over us but you have to be in charge of your destiny by the choices you make....
i know......i made some bad choices because I was afraid of change,thought my situation was different,because i was forgiving, because i was more niave than I admitted or thought,because I thought i could control it,or keep it inline......which are all excuses bec deep down I had doubts that i over rided instead of listening to that inner voice that says....run and move on forward and dont look back....DONT SETTLE.
if she really doesn't have it, he got it from someone else.