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Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Im a cheater

Saritamontel
Saritamontel

Im not sure if im in the right section but here it goes. I have been cheating on my husband with different men throughout our marriage. He just doesn't emotional satisfy me. Nor sexual. We don't ever go no where. I cater to hus every need but he never wants to do none of for me. I get more insults than i do compliments. But the crazy thing is i can't leave him. Been together since i was 19 n he was 29...he is all i know. I feel like he couldnt handle me leaving him . i am financial dependent on me as well. I try to stop cheating but then i start feeling so undesirable and so alone and start looking for the attn from another man emotionally and physically. What should i do and what do i have to do .

Newman2016
Newman2016
It seems you are looking for something in particular to be said. What might it be? Truth be told, you are wrong for this. You are wrong'er each time you repeat the act(s). When you are 'in love' with someone, you wouldn't want to see them hurt - much less be the one hurting them. To lay down with another person, whilst your husband doesn't know, repeatedly - serious issues.

I respect one thing about you, tbh - it's that you 'say' that you know you have some issues to work on. But you're holding this man you claim you love hostage. It's abuse. There's no other way to put it. You sound like you have enough reasoning power to just stop, or at least try really really really hard.

That said, this is the wrong forum.