My god woman that is a falicy.

aids test............i am careful unlike other people that cheat and dont use protection

If he went down on you, herpes amongst others.

No covering it is not all inclusive.

i use protection, i dont want stds im clean and am going to stay that way, unlike other people that cheat and give their partners stds.
sorry im not like that.

It's good that you told him e erything. You have given him the info for him to make a decision. It seems like he is oddly calm. Be prepared for the storm. Do you want things to work out with him? If you do,your life has to be an open book. I hope things work out for you. It's going to be a long road.

Too good to be true!Good luck!

****PINK u have no idea what alot is happening, instead of calling me names, im not going to say all, my friends and family have fully understood and know the whole story, pink, have you read any of my jourmal entries? have you ever contacted me and asking for all story? anyone on net can read this, so i didnt go into detail like my journals and talking to friends who have read and asked.

**when did pink call you names ..no one can read your journals your set to friends only...on another group you said you had no fb but you have one before you made that commont and on the other group your in a lot of pain and seam to be taking a lot of pain meds..its not to hard to find information word of warning about useing fb photos..thought you had problems with counselors saying to abused you in to have sex with him..so he be number 4

Smile - you said you told him, then later you say " I told him most of what happened, but left out some things that would hurt him." Witholding the truth will ALWAYS be more painful for the BS. You need to tell him EVERYTHING. Trickle truth is NOT ok and will only cause more pain for the both of you.

As for name calling, I'm not sure where you are seeing that but what I got from Pink was that she was saying "hey, you said A, now you are saying B. What's the truth?"

As for an HIV test (it is NOT AIDS test! it is HIV - please educate yourselves cigar and smile and anyone else who doesn't know the difference), get an STI (sexually transmitted infections) screening ASAP. even with protection you are still at risk. The fact that you've had 3 partners AND your husband means you are at HIGH risk even with protection. Condoms are only 99% effective and that's only for the part that is covered. Many STI's are spread by the skin NOT covered by a condom. GET CHECKED.

As a CS, I know it's hard to tell your BS the whole truth. We've already hurt them so very much. But take it from me, trickle truth hurts more. I did that with my BS and when it all came out it felt like starting all over in the rebuilding. Please tell your BS EVERYTHING. For him and for you.

kly..........I didn't have fb until I started doing free samples and to get them you had to like them on fb, so I made account.
I have the right to set my page friends only, and yes I am in chronic pain, I have all the medical results sitting at my drs and pain clinic. the cp board deals with a lot, the isolation, depression,and reading a positive post on the board makes your day, you don't get called troll.
in my first post I was called that.
yes I know I leave things out, those things to me are not important.
yes I am on pain killers.......what does that have to do with this.
if you read what I write, my thoughts etc,and know me as a person, a lot more of the story would be told.
I talk to them for at least 6 months before I do anything, text messages,im, fb, little details I leave out.
as for him staying with him,that his choice, I'm not holding him hostage in any way, in fact I'm saying to him if he leaves I understand.

misshertouch, here in Australia we call them stds so I know what I am talking about, and here in aust we call them aids test.
read the first post I posted.
every countries has there own words and STD is sexually transmitted disease not sti.
I ask for test every 6 months and clean clean clean.
maybe you should send me pm and you would've known the truth, like all my friends do.

" I told him most of what happened, but left out some things that would hurt him."

You received multiple pieces of advice from betrayed spouses on your previous post. The single, most important thing every one of them told you is that you have to be 100 percent honest and minimize or lie about anything.

If you love him, go to him and let him know that you minimized things because you didn't want to hurt him, and that you want to be 100% honest. And if he wants to know, tell him the absolute truth.

I have and he has forgiven me. he also said for me to honest is all he wanted, he feels now I can talk to him,know he will stay, I know I should have talked to him like I have over the few days, that's all he's wanted.
if anyone on this board knew me, knows I will hurt a person before they have a chance too. if any one knew me, they would know what I have being through, being there for it all, I'm not perfect either.
bent down on his knee and asked me to marry him.
omg what a ring as well.

*** bent down on his knee and asked me to marry him.
omg what a ring as well.1/16/2013 As in yesterday...fb post October 29, 2012 Got Engaged..is this the same boyfriend/husband/colin.***.if anyone on this board knew me, knows I will hurt a person before they have a chance too..no one here knows you because your set to private..so no one knows you..** if any one knew me, they would know what I have being through..at this point Im more worried about boyfriend/ husband/Colin then you for maybe giving him a nice wedding present of STDs that are curable and those that are not..that hes suppose to keep forgveing you because its not your fault..playing the sorry game to him every time you cheat or worried hes going to find out..maybe when you told him everything he was sleeping..maybe call it mental abuse towards him...to much excitement some sort of thrill....my sluts keeps trying to make contact even when hes now told her to get lost twice..there is NO responding to anything she sends ...phone calls go to massage...Were planing on getting a restraning order just waiting a bit more of her crap..the more the Merryer..23 people on my side know all about it.not including the 6 who work at the U..as for her she thinks just her me and my slut.... I read she/bea clams that all 3 husbands were abuses to her.. hers stories she write she hides from family/friends.. she the trouble maker and blames everyone else..nothing her fault...her soulmate Roy. as she calls him plays him for a fool....time to make contact and tell him that shes been up to..she probably shagged all the old prof at the U...and everyone else here...she got her claws out for her so called friends the one nicked name Mr Man ..would not be surprised then been together ..dotty and Mr man are getting marred in a few months...so this story not much different from yours.. everyone pays the price....and they say karma a bitch when she comes calling. and collects her reward.....now lets get started with the buts buts this is different ..I have no ideal what your taking about..stutter your words ..I am truthful trustful i would not hurt a flea...prove it..unless colin wants a 3 some

you already deleted your other groups something to hide or worried they find out your lying there to...maybe you have another DS account by now under a different name ..have you deleted the blogs yet...you say some were if someone did not like what you posted they should not post...this is a group for those who been cheated on ...not a cant help myself ..find the cheaters group youll fit right in..some say tis brain fog that makes one cheat but you been in the fog awhile to long...well some nutty on another group with her bs always ends with god bless...

Is home, I see you keep responding to her post but I think cukoo flew over the nest.

Let me try and work my first grade math skills, and fifth grade sex ed here:

1. You say you don't have multiple partners (or however you spelled it) but you did three different guys. More than one is...multiple, yes? Anyone? Anyone?

2. You use protection so you won't get STD's. Ok...and tell me which protection, besides not screwing at all, is 100 percent fullproof???

Am i missing something, or is this shit crazy as hell?

T,

OMG that was funny.

Coffee all over my monitor.