Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
This is the first day that I joined this group. I looked online today for help somewhere for the first time because I guess for the first time I think I really have an issue with commitment...cheating...flirting.
I have been in a relationship for years and all along the way I have continuously met women while out and exchanged numbers, contacted women online like facebook and Instagram. Every conversation eventually ends up being sexual describing things we want to do to each other. The worst part is, I don't even have a desire to really go see the women. I seem to only enjoy the thrill of the hunt or the fact that I know I could have the women if I wanted to. As far as actually physically cheating, I dont want to, I am very happy with my girl friend.
My girl-friend has found some of these messages and of course it broke her heart. Of course I promised never to do it again. And of course I continue to do it, and she finds them and the cycle continues. She said I have a problem and I did not believe her but at this point she may be right! I do not know if I am continuing to seek other women because maybe I have some doubt in our relationship and I am still trying to find "a better fit." But that may just be the classic "the grass is greener on the other side" issue. Or maybe I just really have an ego that must be fed so I seek out women to fill that void. I really do not know what it is but I hate that at this point, I cannot seem to just simply not flirt with women like I thought I could. It really has become a problem and I need help and advice. I don't know what else to do
Why am I cheating?
Oh, right: because I'm an ass.
It is all HER fault.
Again, not to be rude but I'm going to go out on a limb here and suggest that it's much easier to get off with women via the computer because there is no performance anxiety or requirement that you bother with satisfying your partner. It's honestly the most selfish form of self pleasure available in the world today.
Also, I can tell your a narcissist because most guys would just masturbate with porn, but the real ass hats need the thrill of manipulating another person to give them the extra kick to get off.
These are things I wouldn't normally tell a person for fear of hurting their feelings, but lets be honest no one here is really hurting your feelings because you're far too self-centered to really care what any of us think. I think you might benefit from researching sociopath, psychopath and narcissist.
That’s what she needs and if you give a damn like you say you do you will see to it that need is met.